20261107 What's the Difference Between Absorbing the Anger and Not Letting It Afflict You

#tags-top <iframe class="transcriberag-studio-book-video" name="transcriberag-studio-book-video" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2318" width="560" height="315" title="Lecture video" allow="autoplay; encrypted-media; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen></iframe> <hr class="tag-epage-divider"> #tags-bottom <br>  <div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-main-topic" data-epage-description-start="2318.477" data-xs-start="2318.477" data-xs-end="2338.972863"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><span class="tag-book-speaker-label">Samson</span><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2318&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2318.477" aria-label="Play from 00:38:38">00:38:38</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ad23b783-3b3a-44c7-990c-634e267c54e6" data-xs-start="2318.477" data-xs-end="2319.210493"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2318&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2318.477" aria-label="Play from 00:38:38">Hi Master.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e18e678b-8dcd-47ca-a55f-37b76c37109b" data-xs-start="2319.779" data-xs-end="2321.008598"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2319&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2319.779" aria-label="Play from 00:38:39">I wanted to ask</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b8a4349f-7753-49dc-beb4-174e431085e1" data-xs-start="2321.008598" data-xs-end="2327.484801"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2321&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2321.008598" aria-label="Play from 00:38:41">what's the difference between absorbing the anger and not letting it afflict you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="22f619a9-3964-43e3-aa00-f7d3e59a968d" data-xs-start="2327.74856" data-xs-end="2329.204471"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2327&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2327.74856" aria-label="Play from 00:38:47">Because in some scenarios</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="05f6e4cc-30c6-4006-bb01-456af1845e29" data-xs-start="2329.204471" data-xs-end="2330.548"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2329&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2329.204471" aria-label="Play from 00:38:49">with my fiance for example:</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="58c27af7-54b4-41e2-bac1-a2216b8c1ab4" data-xs-start="2330.548" data-xs-end="2331.860026"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2330&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2330.548" aria-label="Play from 00:38:50">like if she's angry at me</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="aa9db881-3e99-4997-9a3e-6e2b6a76c215" data-xs-start="2332.337" data-xs-end="2334.116921"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2332&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2332.337" aria-label="Play from 00:38:52">and I don't let it afflict me</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c7c9ed54-7568-4064-aeb5-9373b434e299" data-xs-start="2334.116921" data-xs-end="2334.583682"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2334&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2334.116921" aria-label="Play from 00:38:54">and I</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d53a4416-6047-4c37-8b56-e973709a317b" data-xs-start="2334.765146" data-xs-end="2335.505704349776"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2334&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2334.765146" aria-label="Play from 00:38:54">not necesarily</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="50714811-ebdf-4daf-ae98-36bbd137f985" data-xs-start="2335.505704349776" data-xs-end="2336.0169151121077"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2335&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2335.505704349776" aria-label="Play from 00:38:55">ignore it</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="daea6a35-c5ea-4e2a-9106-4a074e3532bd" data-xs-start="2336.0169151121077" data-xs-end="2337.066301"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2336&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2336.0169151121077" aria-label="Play from 00:38:56">but don't let it afflict me;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d7972712-a6a3-40bc-b352-455062b5d6d9" data-xs-start="2337.505481" data-xs-end="2338.972863"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2337&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2337.505481" aria-label="Play from 00:38:57">I think she gets even angrier.</a></span></div></div></div></div> <div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2339.768735" data-xs-start="2339.768735" data-xs-end="2353.778"><span class="tag-epage-cue" hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" data-source-id="6544c1d7-72aa-46de-83a7-5fec1463066e" data-xs-start="2352.757674986547" data-xs-end="2353.778"></span><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><span class="tag-book-speaker-label">Master YongHua</span><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2339&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2339.768735" aria-label="Play from 00:38:59">00:38:59</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d863a09c-b68f-478b-9817-98ad0c447185" data-xs-start="2339.768735" data-xs-end="2341.312592"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2339&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2339.768735" aria-label="Play from 00:38:59">Good question.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1222b5c7-a505-42e4-8969-770be9a7181c" data-xs-start="2342.764" data-xs-end="2343.547"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2342&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2342.764" aria-label="Play from 00:39:02">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1c222301-1f36-4ca2-8541-610170e29fdf" data-xs-start="2347.157" data-xs-end="2348.762997"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2347&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2347.157" aria-label="Play from 00:39:07">This is subscription phase;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c52eed3f-81ec-4807-83b5-9e692057fc0e" data-xs-start="2348.762997" data-xs-end="2349.1"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2348&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2348.762997" aria-label="Play from 00:39:08">okay—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="cf816684-4e03-45e3-aced-7e250a8cc0b2" data-xs-start="2349.1" data-xs-end="2349.565343"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2349&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2349.1" aria-label="Play from 00:39:09">based,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d47a52c4-81da-4b6a-bfc5-26ebbece205e" data-xs-start="2349.565343" data-xs-end="2349.887"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2349&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2349.565343" aria-label="Play from 00:39:09">you know.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9ea97494-acd7-4250-b679-7eecb2cae4e0" data-xs-start="2350.485" data-xs-end="2351.38151"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2350&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2350.485" aria-label="Play from 00:39:10">Just remind you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="30f0ee5f-a1b2-4e07-b333-5a23c65a3dcd" data-xs-start="2352.085029246637" data-xs-end="2352.578361"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2352&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2352.085029246637" aria-label="Play from 00:39:12">Okay.</a></span></div></div></div></div> <div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2353.778" data-xs-start="2353.778" data-xs-end="2366.711175"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2353&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2353.778" aria-label="Play from 00:39:13">00:39:13</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0383c126-6584-46f8-a023-1a117700e4f4" data-xs-start="2353.778" data-xs-end="2354.130498"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2353&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2353.778" aria-label="Play from 00:39:13">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c2332bac-5180-4a7d-bfb7-62c8de687e44" data-xs-start="2354.130498" data-xs-end="2354.803"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2354&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2354.130498" aria-label="Play from 00:39:14">This is real,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="11929f81-6bf9-4e7d-90f8-4fdb3c44d6f5" data-xs-start="2354.803" data-xs-end="2355.859196"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2354&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2354.803" aria-label="Play from 00:39:14">real good question.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="19819d31-22a7-47e8-b7d0-c4c1f2227866" data-xs-start="2357.806" data-xs-end="2358.81875"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2357&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2357.806" aria-label="Play from 00:39:17">This is why—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a70561d1-865c-4907-9435-bb0837e9a2e4" data-xs-start="2359.078702" data-xs-end="2360.85"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2359&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2359.078702" aria-label="Play from 00:39:19">feel free to ask questions</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="cbba0489-d1e4-447e-bdba-21c6a7ddf5d4" data-xs-start="2360.85" data-xs-end="2362.551191"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2360&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2360.85" aria-label="Play from 00:39:20">because the more you ask question</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="49aee83a-2b69-492e-b0d2-0a3715d02adc" data-xs-start="2362.551191" data-xs-end="2362.899955"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2362&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2362.551191" aria-label="Play from 00:39:22">then I—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ee32a544-2d0f-4a31-bed0-ff4ae89f5d41" data-xs-start="2362.899955" data-xs-end="2364.935576"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2362&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2362.899955" aria-label="Play from 00:39:22">it allows me to go deeper.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1aedf501-af19-4909-94cf-2316a8710913" data-xs-start="2366.1582984125557" data-xs-end="2366.711175"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2366&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2366.1582984125557" aria-label="Play from 00:39:26">Okay.</a></span></div></div></div></div> <div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2373.514986659193" data-xs-start="2373.514986659193" data-xs-end="2397.672"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><span class="tag-book-speaker-label">Master YongHua</span><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2373&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2373.514986659193" aria-label="Play from 00:39:33">00:39:33</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="df04bd40-3764-4c14-8b46-8115901b339b" data-xs-start="2373.514986659193" data-xs-end="2374.576442"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2373&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2373.514986659193" aria-label="Play from 00:39:33">Level 3:</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="87b54b79-a2aa-418c-a5c5-baa93e08252b" data-xs-start="2375.399" data-xs-end="2376.729"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2375&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2375.399" aria-label="Play from 00:39:35">sometimes,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2fb951e6-b5fb-4478-8f00-62f22a020579" data-xs-start="2377.218751" data-xs-end="2379.298926"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2377&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2377.218751" aria-label="Play from 00:39:37">you have to let them hurt you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7b43b289-6e39-41c1-b9e0-3e7359cd2fc7" data-xs-start="2396.257" data-xs-end="2397.672"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2396&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2396.257" aria-label="Play from 00:39:56">for two reasons.</a></span></div></div></div></div> <div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2398.415886" data-xs-start="2398.415886" data-xs-end="2474.103521"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2398&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2398.415886" aria-label="Play from 00:39:58">00:39:58</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="caf6b507-85ae-4e6e-a5be-937cd8f05b55" data-xs-start="2398.415886" data-xs-end="2399.820155"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2398&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2398.415886" aria-label="Play from 00:39:58">Number one:</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2f2eb196-d59e-47a1-8850-251bc4a6136c" data-xs-start="2400.285" data-xs-end="2401.255"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2400&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2400.285" aria-label="Play from 00:40:00">remember,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="fd212e4a-f0b7-4b24-89c0-730b878a3305" data-xs-start="2401.255" data-xs-end="2403.623363"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2401&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2401.255" aria-label="Play from 00:40:01">they need to release it</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d6e55798-43dd-4d83-85ad-2b10a42984cf" data-xs-start="2404.345335" data-xs-end="2405.949231"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2404&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2404.345335" aria-label="Play from 00:40:04">until they're satisfied.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ba2702cb-7ee7-4580-9ea3-cc5b3d10a76d" data-xs-start="2406.85" data-xs-end="2407.527651"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2406&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2406.85" aria-label="Play from 00:40:06">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4fd93b45-0222-4f79-a652-d9400bc841b4" data-xs-start="2408.012618" data-xs-end="2409.137935896861"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2408&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2408.012618" aria-label="Play from 00:40:08">The anger:</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9eba36d0-c34f-484b-b9fa-b9b9951d73d0" data-xs-start="2409.137935896861" data-xs-end="2410.115338"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2409&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2409.137935896861" aria-label="Play from 00:40:09">what is anger?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="857a6b4f-3ae8-44e0-b400-861cddc577c3" data-xs-start="2410.115338" data-xs-end="2412.945258"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2410&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2410.115338" aria-label="Play from 00:40:10">Anger is I want to hurt someone.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="179b0896-960d-4fab-9b84-a5e89535b38b" data-xs-start="2413.329587" data-xs-end="2414.018389"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2413&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2413.329587" aria-label="Play from 00:40:13">Excuse me,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7cf42c9b-4e7f-4bad-bda1-efbe36800b43" data-xs-start="2414.018389" data-xs-end="2414.676668"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2414&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2414.018389" aria-label="Play from 00:40:14">children.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0f2f5e22-3fe9-445c-b061-95f0b1162a51" data-xs-start="2415.7958312735427" data-xs-end="2416.625797"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2415&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2415.7958312735427" aria-label="Play from 00:40:15">Correct?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="770f8226-00c9-482d-a8ee-1c26289fefd9" data-xs-start="2417.6254276860986" data-xs-end="2418.317747"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2417&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2417.6254276860986" aria-label="Play from 00:40:17">You're angry—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8d6dc63d-0aa2-4aab-a3b6-12ab3dfd3202" data-xs-start="2418.317747" data-xs-end="2418.643582"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2418&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2418.317747" aria-label="Play from 00:40:18">I want to—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d0d2617c-d150-48f8-a3d2-6c3411ed69e7" data-xs-start="2418.643582" data-xs-end="2419.71399270852"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2418&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2418.643582" aria-label="Play from 00:40:18">I want to hurt someone,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="eb053e29-9e3d-476c-89d5-00e1786b569c" data-xs-start="2419.71399270852" data-xs-end="2420.730204"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2419&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2419.71399270852" aria-label="Play from 00:40:19">want to hit someone.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="906dbea8-e1dd-4c31-a7ca-6f9d4adaa6f9" data-xs-start="2421.6982976412555" data-xs-end="2423.675565"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2421&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2421.6982976412555" aria-label="Play from 00:40:21">Someone has to pay for my anger.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="141b4800-87b4-4c12-b3ab-70582ef337d1" data-xs-start="2424.100476" data-xs-end="2424.726724"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2424&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2424.100476" aria-label="Play from 00:40:24">Correct?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0c138db8-7ec8-4f0e-b90b-703303e14139" data-xs-start="2425.815" data-xs-end="2427.206698"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2425&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2425.815" aria-label="Play from 00:40:25">We going to hurt someone,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="cf4e46d2-62f7-423b-b4b7-d1248c092d52" data-xs-start="2427.429269" data-xs-end="2428.219"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2427&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2427.429269" aria-label="Play from 00:40:27">okay,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a4fb2fdb-615d-4098-81e9-48409b859c44" data-xs-start="2428.392218" data-xs-end="2430.371391"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2428&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2428.392218" aria-label="Play from 00:40:28">so let them hurt you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3910f618-a8a6-49f2-9826-0b7163512ee2" data-xs-start="2432.687" data-xs-end="2433.981385399103"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2432&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2432.687" aria-label="Play from 00:40:32">That's how you really,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="25132af9-ab05-4747-bc47-1093d43c5c1e" data-xs-start="2433.981385399103" data-xs-end="2435.581825"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2433&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2433.981385399103" aria-label="Play from 00:40:33">really can help them.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8eba21ff-9f94-450e-b753-bb962a67d62a" data-xs-start="2440.449" data-xs-end="2442.063072"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2440&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2440.449" aria-label="Play from 00:40:40">That's why I just taught you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5921140d-abd5-44da-93d4-f68ebd4c4ee0" data-xs-start="2442.063072" data-xs-end="2442.649577"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2442&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2442.063072" aria-label="Play from 00:40:42">You know.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="062af671-fd54-4ae3-b88a-2e074538326e" data-xs-start="2442.89823" data-xs-end="2445.038114"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2442&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2442.89823" aria-label="Play from 00:40:42">That wall because I don't owe you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8dcbcec7-ff1f-4ccf-b94f-fd0470c2a3be" data-xs-start="2445.492408" data-xs-end="2448.191457"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2445&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2445.492408" aria-label="Play from 00:40:45">This is as far as you get.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3b8eda16-1442-47d8-9cc7-08ca650c8c1e" data-xs-start="2448.191457" data-xs-end="2449.347104"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2448&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2448.191457" aria-label="Play from 00:40:48">You cannot go beyond this.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5242a731-7cc5-4774-949a-363dd89a54ba" data-xs-start="2449.347104" data-xs-end="2450.775"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2449&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2449.347104" aria-label="Play from 00:40:49">I don't want to help you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d5ab742e-ac9c-4026-866c-380f0cb5d718" data-xs-start="2450.775" data-xs-end="2452.057262"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2450&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2450.775" aria-label="Play from 00:40:50">I don't care for you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="08a604b9-cb7c-419c-9860-de6417b765f1" data-xs-start="2452.428829" data-xs-end="2453.530855"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2452&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2452.428829" aria-label="Play from 00:40:52">It stops right here.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5c28bf94-10f3-4155-8a5c-fc444c5bc32b" data-xs-start="2453.530855" data-xs-end="2455.604572"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2453&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2453.530855" aria-label="Play from 00:40:53">You can get angry all you want.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="f0da3b73-c39e-40aa-8a2b-32cfedc2f516" data-xs-start="2456.299905233184" data-xs-end="2458.097632"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2456&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2456.299905233184" aria-label="Play from 00:40:56">You cannot go past this wall.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="152862c5-a4b0-4e0a-afbf-2f5236ae2465" data-xs-start="2459.064479224215" data-xs-end="2461.106175"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2459&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2459.064479224215" aria-label="Play from 00:40:59">My mind is stronger than yours.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8fa2d4f1-ae8b-4546-bcaa-225c0ce69972" data-xs-start="2461.605773" data-xs-end="2462.874414"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2461&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2461.605773" aria-label="Play from 00:41:01">It stops right there.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ba8084fa-cffa-4174-bdfe-f0a6264dac95" data-xs-start="2463.227807" data-xs-end="2464.06438"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2463&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2463.227807" aria-label="Play from 00:41:03">Ha ha.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b68e1673-7d95-416a-b366-1118327c4fcd" data-xs-start="2471.8368015246633" data-xs-end="2472.61644"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2471&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2471.8368015246633" aria-label="Play from 00:41:11">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8a6355b6-f902-4415-9b14-e6b21b894070" data-xs-start="2472.61644" data-xs-end="2474.103521"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2472&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2472.61644" aria-label="Play from 00:41:12">That's reason number one.</a></span></div></div></div></div> <div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2476.037377502242" data-xs-start="2476.037377502242" data-xs-end="2583.226814"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2476&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2476.037377502242" aria-label="Play from 00:41:16">00:41:16</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="407de989-0b40-47e8-b46d-72687cea4a81" data-xs-start="2476.037377502242" data-xs-end="2477.900942"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2476&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2476.037377502242" aria-label="Play from 00:41:16">You have to let them hurt you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c84835f8-1e82-465d-8c1d-233df527eaa7" data-xs-start="2478.844068039391" data-xs-end="2481.073893"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2478&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2478.844068039391" aria-label="Play from 00:41:18">It's your father, let him hurt you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="dadf1b34-d998-48b0-a9cf-134d16301a29" data-xs-start="2481.465797" data-xs-end="2483.123145"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2481&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2481.465797" aria-label="Play from 00:41:21">It's your mother, let her hurt you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b13f1a79-af78-48dc-9dc6-607ffeabc910" data-xs-start="2483.7936841978512" data-xs-end="2484.526137"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2483&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2483.7936841978512" aria-label="Play from 00:41:23">Why?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a4eb564c-a592-4648-87cd-7be44d8aedae" data-xs-start="2485.177" data-xs-end="2485.695812"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2485&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2485.177" aria-label="Play from 00:41:25">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="40c59fa1-4c90-40d7-9b92-44149b52c267" data-xs-start="2487.54" data-xs-end="2488.995448"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2487&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2487.54" aria-label="Play from 00:41:27">She'll naturally stop.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1e59d88a-0a3f-4356-b50c-763e694c6ee8" data-xs-start="2489.282253" data-xs-end="2489.63311"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2489&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2489.282253" aria-label="Play from 00:41:29">Says,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a2e3510a-9006-4e25-82bb-a13300ec14b4" data-xs-start="2489.63311" data-xs-end="2490.287035"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2489&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2489.63311" aria-label="Play from 00:41:29">"Uh-oh.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="81cbf30a-06dd-471f-8c02-5ce2b063c117" data-xs-start="2490.4721844225605" data-xs-end="2491.469739"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2490&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2490.4721844225605" aria-label="Play from 00:41:30">uh-oh."</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="52288f0d-0a7b-4f1c-9ff2-617046a4b653" data-xs-start="2493.208" data-xs-end="2493.768419"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2493&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2493.208" aria-label="Play from 00:41:33">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4c780bc4-8b91-431e-b9e3-583818213620" data-xs-start="2494.130505" data-xs-end="2499.317831"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2494&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2494.130505" aria-label="Play from 00:41:34">And so let them hurt you because you're stronger.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="53d4fe95-c6c3-43aa-b979-5c5962a70be0" data-xs-start="2499.552599" data-xs-end="2499.942149"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2499&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2499.552599" aria-label="Play from 00:41:39">You know,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ff19fbb0-ebee-40c2-8ffd-629c6bbcbf47" data-xs-start="2499.942149" data-xs-end="2502.57426"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2499&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2499.942149" aria-label="Play from 00:41:39">let them punch you and you get a bruise.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="555b977b-2a20-4cb4-9230-0318636248c5" data-xs-start="2502.57426" data-xs-end="2503.299"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2502&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2502.57426" aria-label="Play from 00:41:42">So what?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="66d25741-8692-4acc-8057-29485fbd7ff2" data-xs-start="2503.299" data-xs-end="2503.831946"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2503&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2503.299" aria-label="Play from 00:41:43">You're not.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ca429cd2-dc35-4566-8a30-92ef73d81542" data-xs-start="2503.831946" data-xs-end="2505.085931"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2503&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2503.831946" aria-label="Play from 00:41:43">You're not going to die.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="51eadee8-5b12-48e6-afa9-b50a4476a589" data-xs-start="2507.367" data-xs-end="2508.677443"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2507&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2507.367" aria-label="Play from 00:41:47">That's point number two.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="353c457c-4272-44cb-9bed-b6d65ef379f8" data-xs-start="2509.559" data-xs-end="2511.140336"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2509&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2509.559" aria-label="Play from 00:41:49">The bruise will heal.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9219389d-92ac-413e-a51c-aa6024351216" data-xs-start="2513.494" data-xs-end="2515.219991"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2513&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2513.494" aria-label="Play from 00:41:53">They can't break your arms.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="26cf0873-5e88-410e-9cf6-103801aad5ae" data-xs-start="2516.323" data-xs-end="2518.962"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2516&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2516.323" aria-label="Play from 00:41:56">They're not strong enough to break the arms.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c81b0b05-5566-4d50-838e-f7f0776f8a93" data-xs-start="2518.962" data-xs-end="2520.96858"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2518&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2518.962" aria-label="Play from 00:41:58">They're not strong to have—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="54d92934-f489-46d5-b648-08904a69cb57" data-xs-start="2520.96858" data-xs-end="2524.157405"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2520&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2520.96858" aria-label="Play from 00:42:00">to inflict permanent damages to your body.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5f4509ac-7f72-4042-a575-60f0bed28beb" data-xs-start="2524.50612" data-xs-end="2526.022411"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2524&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2524.50612" aria-label="Play from 00:42:04">So out of love,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="497e69e2-bf83-49a3-980c-1d6ebf206ba4" data-xs-start="2526.309696" data-xs-end="2527.37647"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2526&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2526.309696" aria-label="Play from 00:42:06">out of caring,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5aebd28e-7586-4982-a3a7-457df724d831" data-xs-start="2527.37647" data-xs-end="2529.060177"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2527&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2527.37647" aria-label="Play from 00:42:07">out of consideration for them;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d3d2456f-2dc5-4d64-b666-2c510ed6e338" data-xs-start="2529.060177" data-xs-end="2530.077169"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2529&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2529.060177" aria-label="Play from 00:42:09">let them hurt you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3f7ef6a9-2546-4c20-a7a0-846e7de2e1e2" data-xs-start="2530.512452" data-xs-end="2531.333543"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2530&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2530.512452" aria-label="Play from 00:42:10">It's okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="f63eeac8-efa6-4acb-a366-7a868e5711b9" data-xs-start="2532.111088" data-xs-end="2537.696397"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2532&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2532.111088" aria-label="Play from 00:42:12">That's point number two because your Chan practice every day,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="58f05e63-915d-4420-9ef1-29484413e9de" data-xs-start="2537.9853" data-xs-end="2541.931382"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2537&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2537.9853" aria-label="Play from 00:42:17">you recover so much faster than a normal person.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c92818a4-e815-4bb6-8eb1-e9338c4287a6" data-xs-start="2545.61" data-xs-end="2548.355229"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2545&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2545.61" aria-label="Play from 00:42:25">I would go and meditate right after.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="96a3964a-e350-4e2e-a90f-35f005cc0e0a" data-xs-start="2548.355229" data-xs-end="2550.973015"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2548&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2548.355229" aria-label="Play from 00:42:28">I would not wait for the next day to meditate.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4a0f8834-eba3-4ed6-b97f-f9193a6c0130" data-xs-start="2551.479827" data-xs-end="2552.274067"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2551&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2551.479827" aria-label="Play from 00:42:31">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3a9abd18-c87c-4853-bc91-33f68ae52b80" data-xs-start="2552.274067" data-xs-end="2555.482932"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2552&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2552.274067" aria-label="Play from 00:42:32">After I get beaten up</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="68aa1117-ff97-4190-8dcf-9f9876f87f23" data-xs-start="2555.482932" data-xs-end="2556.234807"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2555&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2555.482932" aria-label="Play from 00:42:35">and get hurt;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="23d984c5-a0c4-4341-8ed1-62ac42d08544" data-xs-start="2556.234807" data-xs-end="2557.211706"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2556&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2556.234807" aria-label="Play from 00:42:36">I'm afflicted.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e7580cbb-81bd-4b66-864a-fd0cdf03e2b5" data-xs-start="2557.211706" data-xs-end="2557.749841"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2557&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2557.211706" aria-label="Play from 00:42:37">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8bcd0850-406b-4fb4-938b-98a6727be8a2" data-xs-start="2558.196666" data-xs-end="2559.397345"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2558&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2558.196666" aria-label="Play from 00:42:38">I'm not feeling good.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b0b6db6d-a6c5-4f91-93c6-56f51a0f57d7" data-xs-start="2559.95635" data-xs-end="2562.359587"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2559&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2559.95635" aria-label="Play from 00:42:39">I go and meditate and recover.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="59d2fef3-02db-4a3e-9be6-f738013c141f" data-xs-start="2563.508" data-xs-end="2567.727642"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2563&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2563.508" aria-label="Play from 00:42:43">The Chan Meditaton will help you recover so much faster.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="83d62f27-f680-47db-af80-6c012a2e1582" data-xs-start="2568.4075076096688" data-xs-end="2570.151973"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2568&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2568.4075076096688" aria-label="Play from 00:42:48">And that's life folks.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="00177efc-9887-4f79-835b-ea9dfba5c31d" data-xs-start="2572.378" data-xs-end="2574.241465"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2572&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2572.378" aria-label="Play from 00:42:52">If you really care for people,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c456a218-6759-4a9c-ae82-afbdff9d4651" data-xs-start="2574.842" data-xs-end="2576.164407"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2574&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2574.842" aria-label="Play from 00:42:54">care for others,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c0496106-0bdb-4484-a0d1-50f7762019a6" data-xs-start="2576.592637421665" data-xs-end="2577.797316"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2576&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2576.592637421665" aria-label="Play from 00:42:56">sometimes—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="de045390-1c1f-4146-b1f7-ef27958298e9" data-xs-start="2577.797316" data-xs-end="2583.226814"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2577&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2577.797316" aria-label="Play from 00:42:57">you have to let them hurt you so that they cannot hurt others.</a></span></div></div></div></div> <div hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" class="ywe-description-bookmarks" data-ywe-description-bookmarks=""></div>