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<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-main-topic" data-epage-description-start="1714.85" data-xs-start="1714.85" data-xs-end="1733.249"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><span class="tag-book-speaker-label tag-book-translator-role">Translator</span><span class="tag-book-speaker-label tag-book-translator-name">Vickie</span><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1714&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1714.85" aria-label="Play from 00:28:34">00:28:34</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c8e3f608-3950-446e-b0a8-90339cb97181" data-xs-start="1714.85" data-xs-end="1715.567"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1714&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1714.85" aria-label="Play from 00:28:34">Master,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6ef707a0-189a-42f2-8808-59723c7e48b0" data-xs-start="1716.52" data-xs-end="1719.924"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1716&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1716.52" aria-label="Play from 00:28:36">when I'm looking at some people in the eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="01dd3b8b-3d68-40b2-ba99-a0d2d3b9d62a" data-xs-start="1719.924" data-xs-end="1723.331"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1719&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1719.924" aria-label="Play from 00:28:39">I see a lot of anger and resentment.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="20b85f55-f2a0-4c70-b690-ff7e146c8283" data-xs-start="1723.847" data-xs-end="1724.818"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1723&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1723.847" aria-label="Play from 00:28:43">Because of that,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7b33f7a4-e17e-40e9-9bf8-ba025ac0d37a" data-xs-start="1724.818" data-xs-end="1727.399"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1724&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1724.818" aria-label="Play from 00:28:44">I'm reluctant to look at them in the eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5cd89a37-6b2a-47e8-99df-076054009c1b" data-xs-start="1727.552" data-xs-end="1729.252"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1727&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1727.552" aria-label="Play from 00:28:47">I like happy eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ca2852ca-068f-4043-9bdc-ec589b1886e3" data-xs-start="1729.861" data-xs-end="1733.249"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1729&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1729.861" aria-label="Play from 00:28:49">Should we look at people's eyes without discrimination?</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="1734.013" data-xs-start="1734.013" data-xs-end="1761.304"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><span class="tag-book-speaker-label">Master YongHua</span><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1734&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1734.013" aria-label="Play from 00:28:54">00:28:54</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2bd14e8b-1d04-4e1a-9164-54bcf14aee04" data-xs-start="1734.013" data-xs-end="1734.746"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1734&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1734.013" aria-label="Play from 00:28:54">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8586bd7f-76dc-4367-8f40-b465b9239483" data-xs-start="1734.746" data-xs-end="1736.497"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1734&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1734.746" aria-label="Play from 00:28:54">A real good question.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1e8c661b-203a-4477-bcbc-6f1d6fccb409" data-xs-start="1737.749" data-xs-end="1739.734"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1737&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1737.749" aria-label="Play from 00:28:57">What happens when you're angry?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="976931a9-7074-4c61-9e9a-278cb8f9c277" data-xs-start="1743.006" data-xs-end="1745.335"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1743&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1743.006" aria-label="Play from 00:29:03">You remember when your wife was angry at you?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4231af29-7bb6-42a1-82f4-9d7f330b8a93" data-xs-start="1746.263" data-xs-end="1747.872"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1746&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1746.263" aria-label="Play from 00:29:06">Your girlfriend's angry at you?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a089afeb-c214-49c9-a961-01c9bcd955bd" data-xs-start="1750.294" data-xs-end="1752.549"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1750&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1750.294" aria-label="Play from 00:29:10">How can you possibly forget?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b841624c-4841-48d5-b2ba-858b0dddb65b" data-xs-start="1752.549" data-xs-end="1753.045"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1752&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1752.549" aria-label="Play from 00:29:12">Huh?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a165b16a-3ab5-423b-9138-24b363d6b90e" data-xs-start="1753.045" data-xs-end="1755.83"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1753&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1753.045" aria-label="Play from 00:29:13">[chuckle]</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="84b5b01f-b50d-4327-b0b9-37d4ce84dbdf" data-xs-start="1755.83" data-xs-end="1759.177"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1755&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1755.83" aria-label="Play from 00:29:15">You get nightmares when your wife is angry at you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2d0208d8-673f-4052-a6e7-5cc3268887e8" data-xs-start="1760.68" data-xs-end="1761.304"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1760&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1760.68" aria-label="Play from 00:29:20">Right?</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="1762.805" data-xs-start="1762.805" data-xs-end="1799.59"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1762&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1762.805" aria-label="Play from 00:29:22">00:29:22</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="aeb60bb5-4a3c-4be9-8cb0-0d9cef560540" data-xs-start="1762.805" data-xs-end="1764.556"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1762&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1762.805" aria-label="Play from 00:29:22">What happens when people are angry?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="27e0a1c5-d51a-4709-9c19-d32451c87c2a" data-xs-start="1766.182" data-xs-end="1767.501"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1766&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1766.182" aria-label="Play from 00:29:26">They stare at you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c861e23a-1645-426f-8a69-bb22b46e50a2" data-xs-start="1767.501" data-xs-end="1768.061"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1767&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1767.501" aria-label="Play from 00:29:27">Don't they?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="45445790-bf6e-49da-ba1e-63f37989c820" data-xs-start="1768.061" data-xs-end="1771.766"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1768&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1768.061" aria-label="Play from 00:29:28">This anger energy that comes out through their eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6d1872e8-4520-4d3b-b4e6-15f3ec12ed04" data-xs-start="1772.816" data-xs-end="1773.541"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1772&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1772.816" aria-label="Play from 00:29:32">Right?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1d0841a8-d75f-4b53-9689-57ce146fcf6b" data-xs-start="1773.541" data-xs-end="1774.943"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1773&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1773.541" aria-label="Play from 00:29:33">People don't realize that.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1f49d722-80b3-4a9b-9640-ed7270d1274a" data-xs-start="1774.943" data-xs-end="1776.777"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1774&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1774.943" aria-label="Play from 00:29:34">Normal people don't realize it.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5202432e-505f-4427-86fd-3d674e3d2a57" data-xs-start="1776.777" data-xs-end="1778.207"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1776&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1776.777" aria-label="Play from 00:29:36">That when you're angry,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2b351cc7-d281-44b7-8858-4bd99351def6" data-xs-start="1778.207" data-xs-end="1782.024"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1778&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1778.207" aria-label="Play from 00:29:38">you really admit this anger energy.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c140876b-51b0-4727-88e8-e2ef4f2daf8e" data-xs-start="1782.024" data-xs-end="1782.849"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1782&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1782.024" aria-label="Play from 00:29:42">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="32976d88-27a2-4409-a4a9-3fe7db97b76d" data-xs-start="1782.849" data-xs-end="1784.491"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1782&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1782.849" aria-label="Play from 00:29:42">You send this anger energy</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0c3e4a0d-29de-4c76-b00d-1cc15b90dc86" data-xs-start="1784.683" data-xs-end="1786.1"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1784&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1784.683" aria-label="Play from 00:29:44">through your eyes</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3141d109-8831-45f0-bfdb-346ea4978bd2" data-xs-start="1786.1" data-xs-end="1787.508"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1786&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1786.1" aria-label="Play from 00:29:46">that people can observe.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7c4c98dc-b74a-4d00-a377-455070cf9015" data-xs-start="1787.508" data-xs-end="1789.848"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1787&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1787.508" aria-label="Play from 00:29:47">You also send it through your mind as well.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8164300b-62a8-4431-b03c-0958cfdc8837" data-xs-start="1790.351" data-xs-end="1793.364"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1790&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1790.351" aria-label="Play from 00:29:50">Your mind as this but it goes through your eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6f82cab6-02d0-45b0-a023-fd9e080044b4" data-xs-start="1793.364" data-xs-end="1793.851"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1793&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1793.364" aria-label="Play from 00:29:53">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0589c109-53d4-4644-bf95-907478227cf0" data-xs-start="1794.53" data-xs-end="1795.4470000000001"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1794&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1794.53" aria-label="Play from 00:29:54">Observable.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ac3646f0-b1cf-4194-a8cc-b2d8fbeeeb92" data-xs-start="1795.4470000000001" data-xs-end="1797.167"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1795&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1795.4470000000001" aria-label="Play from 00:29:55">The eyes are observable</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0dd1d509-ef32-4174-aaee-d1047d14ce9c" data-xs-start="1797.167" data-xs-end="1799.117"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1797&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1797.167" aria-label="Play from 00:29:57">but it's the mind behind it.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a43e92ac-8a75-4df1-b9e6-92d18d341ff1" data-xs-start="1799.117" data-xs-end="1799.59"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1799&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1799.117" aria-label="Play from 00:29:59">Okay.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="1799.59" data-xs-start="1799.59" data-xs-end="1889.566"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1799&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1799.59" aria-label="Play from 00:29:59">00:29:59</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="760c51cb-f00e-42ef-bae5-2404543d3745" data-xs-start="1799.59" data-xs-end="1801.357"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1799&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1799.59" aria-label="Play from 00:29:59">So people can tell.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ee9b858a-0a9c-413f-a4a5-da2358245406" data-xs-start="1801.357" data-xs-end="1802.571"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1801&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1801.357" aria-label="Play from 00:30:01">You don't have to pretend</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="66cbb19b-a59c-44ef-ac14-45c4bf54769e" data-xs-start="1802.571" data-xs-end="1803.914"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1802&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1802.571" aria-label="Play from 00:30:02">"No, I'm not angry."</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="fc211d73-2bc7-4ac1-9ae5-14a39951d943" data-xs-start="1804.406" data-xs-end="1805.031"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1804&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1804.406" aria-label="Play from 00:30:04">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9a259d6d-84d1-4d28-aa31-fd12de524b5d" data-xs-start="1805.223" data-xs-end="1807.075"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1805&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1805.223" aria-label="Play from 00:30:05">And that behavior is from the mind;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9161969b-14ac-4e07-8dfc-33f577059a2e" data-xs-start="1807.075" data-xs-end="1808.079"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1807&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1807.075" aria-label="Play from 00:30:07">from the angry mind.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="744734e6-8cc5-47f7-9b6a-4d20ab21bc84" data-xs-start="1810.323" data-xs-end="1811.061"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1810&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1810.323" aria-label="Play from 00:30:10">All right.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="256a4671-fde7-4486-a288-e23d4bc44963" data-xs-start="1811.061" data-xs-end="1811.543"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1811&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1811.061" aria-label="Play from 00:30:11">No,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ef5cdb6c-46f4-4f89-baba-2b054d2fe480" data-xs-start="1811.543" data-xs-end="1812.309"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1811&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1811.543" aria-label="Play from 00:30:11">I'm not angry.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="997bd227-0473-4445-b5b6-78622db053fb" data-xs-start="1813.947" data-xs-end="1814.886"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1813&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1813.947" aria-label="Play from 00:30:13">How come you don't—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="277670a2-700c-4685-b663-489f18fc40af" data-xs-start="1814.886" data-xs-end="1815.669"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1814&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1814.886" aria-label="Play from 00:30:14">never get me.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4e35a256-b103-4f0d-97e6-2f851b108b38" data-xs-start="1815.669" data-xs-end="1817.3"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1815&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1815.669" aria-label="Play from 00:30:15">How come you never understand me.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ce1df979-f36d-4e5b-8cff-71558caa25e7" data-xs-start="1817.493" data-xs-end="1817.91"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1817&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1817.493" aria-label="Play from 00:30:17">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="028f7e9e-00e8-4c7b-8509-52fae7ca1203" data-xs-start="1817.91" data-xs-end="1818.404"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1817&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1817.91" aria-label="Play from 00:30:17">See.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="98ca68c1-8727-474c-b3b7-e7c67f967b50" data-xs-start="1818.404" data-xs-end="1819.324"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1818&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1818.404" aria-label="Play from 00:30:18">Sounds familar?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6e9bb060-e258-490b-b878-58f8be1f827a" data-xs-start="1820.937" data-xs-end="1821.546"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1820&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1820.937" aria-label="Play from 00:30:20">All right.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d0d990a9-3fe0-45c0-aeb5-38479a52885a" data-xs-start="1823.354" data-xs-end="1825.26"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1823&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1823.354" aria-label="Play from 00:30:23">So that's why it's unpleasant.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="48340cf4-edcb-4a1c-93c3-c789bb65f501" data-xs-start="1825.26" data-xs-end="1826.058"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1825&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1825.26" aria-label="Play from 00:30:25">Of course.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="086f5234-9450-42be-a9d0-a42aeac2a440" data-xs-start="1826.058" data-xs-end="1827.276"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1826&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1826.058" aria-label="Play from 00:30:26">When you're like that—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="78b1aaf1-3418-425d-86f2-8710df96c618" data-xs-start="1827.451" data-xs-end="1828.019"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1827&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1827.451" aria-label="Play from 00:30:27">naturally,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ea4a8b54-e14f-4d5e-b71b-9365530472f7" data-xs-start="1828.019" data-xs-end="1828.875"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1828&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1828.019" aria-label="Play from 00:30:28">people would</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="bbc347de-dc34-42ac-93e5-47047d07b564" data-xs-start="1831.415" data-xs-end="1832.454"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1831&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1831.415" aria-label="Play from 00:30:31">back off.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9a7412b5-e067-4942-9c4c-f530e375f127" data-xs-start="1832.91" data-xs-end="1836.093"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1832&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1832.91" aria-label="Play from 00:30:32">And don't want to look you in the eyes because it's offensive.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6fc583f0-0630-4c62-8f96-f8f1528b43a0" data-xs-start="1836.093" data-xs-end="1837.915"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1836&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1836.093" aria-label="Play from 00:30:36">You're attacking them with your eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="804d4fd3-68d9-4d4b-9817-d69ed3a853ec" data-xs-start="1838.1970000000001" data-xs-end="1840.188"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1838&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1838.1970000000001" aria-label="Play from 00:30:38">The anger through your eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="21cdf1fc-32dc-4743-9bd3-4ec505c0b1aa" data-xs-start="1840.693" data-xs-end="1845.103"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1840&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1840.693" aria-label="Play from 00:30:40">It's a attack—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="cad70f57-7183-4acb-a5b9-4f313044ffe0" data-xs-start="1846.897" data-xs-end="1848.348"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1846&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1846.897" aria-label="Play from 00:30:46">it's a mental attack</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0aa1532c-10e6-4719-bef7-33c1dcc6d522" data-xs-start="1850.437" data-xs-end="1851.643"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1850&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1850.437" aria-label="Play from 00:30:50">through your eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="277c77f8-47cd-4d98-b64a-6132c2cd1065" data-xs-start="1852.716" data-xs-end="1854.234"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1852&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1852.716" aria-label="Play from 00:30:52">When you look at your eyes</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="83f74102-ab7e-498b-a6fa-500526adcd33" data-xs-start="1855.692" data-xs-end="1856.571"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1855&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1855.692" aria-label="Play from 00:30:55">with anger,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ba136fcb-9580-4fd2-a5d8-228ce74ef6e2" data-xs-start="1856.571" data-xs-end="1858.077"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1856&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1856.571" aria-label="Play from 00:30:56">with angry energy;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2e1f5002-cabf-43e2-bddc-32e0c2a39e07" data-xs-start="1858.238" data-xs-end="1868.387"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1858&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1858.238" aria-label="Play from 00:30:58">you actually are beating up on that person with your anger energy.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="fa484aee-aca4-4487-b629-7483d27c1828" data-xs-start="1868.914" data-xs-end="1871.048"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1868&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1868.914" aria-label="Play from 00:31:08">And they can feel it through their eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="af3ce151-26c4-4f9e-8e76-4f891cad8429" data-xs-start="1878.64" data-xs-end="1880.796"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1878&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1878.64" aria-label="Play from 00:31:18">And think about this:</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6fdddc0e-8634-4869-aa4b-0623f161af33" data-xs-start="1881.195" data-xs-end="1883.392"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1881&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1881.195" aria-label="Play from 00:31:21">the more Samadhi you have</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9337a6dc-07c4-4488-9714-d219b8ef1c5e" data-xs-start="1886.169" data-xs-end="1889.566"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1886&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1886.169" aria-label="Play from 00:31:26">the scarier you become when you're angry.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="1893.391" data-xs-start="1893.391" data-xs-end="1918.051"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1893&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1893.391" aria-label="Play from 00:31:33">00:31:33</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="bf95f54f-5332-4489-8e85-25e9e2fb04ae" data-xs-start="1893.391" data-xs-end="1895.175"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1893&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1893.391" aria-label="Play from 00:31:33">So how do you deal with it?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="bc3cd7dd-2bab-4332-afaa-e8b409320c8c" data-xs-start="1895.175" data-xs-end="1895.799"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1895&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1895.175" aria-label="Play from 00:31:35">The question:</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="401e50c4-eb40-4587-8dea-d81bf0da441f" data-xs-start="1895.799" data-xs-end="1896.831"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1895&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1895.799" aria-label="Play from 00:31:35">how do I deal with?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5ff24da6-54c3-47df-b3aa-050ee08047e6" data-xs-start="1897.13" data-xs-end="1897.554"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1897&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1897.13" aria-label="Play from 00:31:37">You know,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a41f9d5c-a89a-4328-9eb6-0b7c2dc67fbc" data-xs-start="1897.991" data-xs-end="1899.362"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1897&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1897.991" aria-label="Play from 00:31:37">could be someone lower you:</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2774f060-81d7-4516-b170-8cfe2a0456d7" data-xs-start="1899.362" data-xs-end="1900.442"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1899&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1899.362" aria-label="Play from 00:31:39">your student</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="627a7f10-e6c2-424f-ad6a-e297bd692d7b" data-xs-start="1900.442" data-xs-end="1902.397"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1900&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1900.442" aria-label="Play from 00:31:40">or your maid</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="94f914dd-4c95-44c4-8ed2-f181018155ec" data-xs-start="1902.579" data-xs-end="1903.175"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1902&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1902.579" aria-label="Play from 00:31:42">or...</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c929198f-1d7a-4101-9749-c8d90ba31b2a" data-xs-start="1905.173" data-xs-end="1906.386"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1905&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1905.173" aria-label="Play from 00:31:45">it's unpleasant.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="51cdf01f-2155-4e5c-8a36-d3725523caeb" data-xs-start="1906.386" data-xs-end="1907.8029999999999"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1906&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1906.386" aria-label="Play from 00:31:46">You don't need to look at it.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a5b563ed-de13-4376-8f49-f9cd9ee64de5" data-xs-start="1908.509" data-xs-end="1910.076"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1908&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1908.509" aria-label="Play from 00:31:48">So the way you do it is that...</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="47ff206a-107e-4a63-99af-01ef20ed0320" data-xs-start="1910.48" data-xs-end="1911.265"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1910&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1910.48" aria-label="Play from 00:31:50">First of all,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3a1f4d49-22ff-4d87-89b1-3eb980d1de7a" data-xs-start="1913.832" data-xs-end="1915.454"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1913&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1913.832" aria-label="Play from 00:31:53">virtually all of you—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="fc78c16e-f45f-4505-8986-7563a2bac7f3" data-xs-start="1915.454" data-xs-end="1916.68"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1915&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1915.454" aria-label="Play from 00:31:55">you practice Chan;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="13153846-3441-45de-b01d-060ed731dd10" data-xs-start="1916.903" data-xs-end="1918.051"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1916&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1916.903" aria-label="Play from 00:31:56">you're stronger than them.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="1921.175" data-xs-start="1921.175" data-xs-end="1987.387"><span class="tag-epage-cue" hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" data-source-id="c6797e7b-f65f-41cb-b91f-05e9040de58a" data-xs-start="1952.686" data-xs-end="1954.251"></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" data-source-id="42d37869-017e-4e0e-bc6d-96e03e3f9cf1" data-xs-start="1959.024" data-xs-end="1960.016"></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" data-source-id="06d6cbe4-bfbd-4008-8a9b-e8fed19b953c" data-xs-start="1966.411" data-xs-end="1969.277"></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" data-source-id="b3ed75ef-4aee-478a-9cbc-e4c6e1c027d8" data-xs-start="1978.519" data-xs-end="1982.606"></span><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1921&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1921.175" aria-label="Play from 00:32:01">00:32:01</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5c1b106f-7857-41f9-a73e-92c341c5cd8d" data-xs-start="1921.175" data-xs-end="1925.414"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1921&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1921.175" aria-label="Play from 00:32:01">They can be angry all they want at you but they can't do anything to you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1ed0ce12-1f5f-40c1-9911-5a13347e2b07" data-xs-start="1926.128" data-xs-end="1928.255"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1926&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1926.128" aria-label="Play from 00:32:06">They can't damage you at all</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="522821b9-5b2a-4ba1-91a6-a96cc34b1219" data-xs-start="1929.268" data-xs-end="1931.542"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1929&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1929.268" aria-label="Play from 00:32:09">with their angry energy.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c5fd3767-30fb-4933-8a8e-b2f3cf64f834" data-xs-start="1931.542" data-xs-end="1932.918"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1931&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1931.542" aria-label="Play from 00:32:11">It will bounce off you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="cd8f3ab4-6de7-48c5-bb69-4267fb5d286d" data-xs-start="1934.593" data-xs-end="1936.225"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1934&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1934.593" aria-label="Play from 00:32:14">So you don't have to react.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5a2fc2c3-b5fc-4d51-8917-f82f51cb5617" data-xs-start="1937.037" data-xs-end="1938.116"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1937&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1937.037" aria-label="Play from 00:32:17">You can embrace it.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9402c26f-f721-4861-bd3a-43abafbe58c4" data-xs-start="1939.407" data-xs-end="1940.728"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1939&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1939.407" aria-label="Play from 00:32:19">It's an outlet.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e768177d-f831-4f8d-acad-35d5a00a1b79" data-xs-start="1940.728" data-xs-end="1941.325"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1940&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1940.728" aria-label="Play from 00:32:20">First of all,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="14b52bf0-a53c-46df-bc85-1fdea4919217" data-xs-start="1941.566" data-xs-end="1943.881"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1941&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1941.566" aria-label="Play from 00:32:21">those of you who have like girlfriends</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6cff88e2-c8a3-4c04-8ee4-fc23a05f490e" data-xs-start="1943.881" data-xs-end="1944.575"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1943&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1943.881" aria-label="Play from 00:32:23">or wives</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7899a71a-a371-4567-9376-104fe27f6c94" data-xs-start="1944.839" data-xs-end="1945.856"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1944&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1944.839" aria-label="Play from 00:32:24">who often lose—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="44ba0d51-78a0-4de5-95a7-6c6fca4fe8e3" data-xs-start="1945.856" data-xs-end="1947.883"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1945&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1945.856" aria-label="Play from 00:32:25">who sometimes lose their temper.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="14bb00b0-7d21-493d-839f-925dc460c521" data-xs-start="1948.704" data-xs-end="1949.311"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1948&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1948.704" aria-label="Play from 00:32:28">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2582dec7-1f4c-47f8-9887-24276483c098" data-xs-start="1950.998" data-xs-end="1951.715"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1950&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1950.998" aria-label="Play from 00:32:30">Anyone?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="87531e19-33f8-4982-8b37-c2f92f2e648b" data-xs-start="1954.251" data-xs-end="1955.796"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1954&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1954.251" aria-label="Play from 00:32:34">Some men are laughing.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="572596a3-e768-4970-87d3-9286b7f20c76" data-xs-start="1955.796" data-xs-end="1956.58"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1955&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1955.796" aria-label="Play from 00:32:35">Heh heh!</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3d7ff2f2-bdd1-4b11-b2b2-b8a074268705" data-xs-start="1956.851" data-xs-end="1958.169"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1956&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1956.851" aria-label="Play from 00:32:36">Only men here today.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="bac09d63-f3b3-4dd3-b7da-5fdd80ed840c" data-xs-start="1958.169" data-xs-end="1959.024"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1958&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1958.169" aria-label="Play from 00:32:38">I feel safe.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="11701ddd-7e10-42c6-9fdf-0786090b2698" data-xs-start="1960.016" data-xs-end="1960.754"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1960&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1960.016" aria-label="Play from 00:32:40">We can—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6d1e2787-2fc5-4a64-becc-4ff94bf1fc6a" data-xs-start="1961.125" data-xs-end="1962.858"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1961&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1961.125" aria-label="Play from 00:32:41">we can speak openly today.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d4d3e884-a142-4187-9c0b-9ae13549242d" data-xs-start="1962.858" data-xs-end="1963.332"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1962&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1962.858" aria-label="Play from 00:32:42">Can we—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="f22981ff-c8ad-4763-8331-f2bb6a4b64ea" data-xs-start="1963.332" data-xs-end="1964.442"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1963&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1963.332" aria-label="Play from 00:32:43">among men only,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="79694c52-e705-4cf7-b110-3cb801f2fd0c" data-xs-start="1964.442" data-xs-end="1964.727"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1964&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1964.442" aria-label="Play from 00:32:44">huh,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2de15c64-0423-4f78-9585-3f704ddb6ba4" data-xs-start="1964.727" data-xs-end="1965.958"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1964&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1964.727" aria-label="Play from 00:32:44">here at Gold Forest.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="60b4ee99-c658-4f38-b86f-96a3f20e9f3f" data-xs-start="1969.277" data-xs-end="1971.235"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1969&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1969.277" aria-label="Play from 00:32:49">In contrast look at</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7dd3e3ec-7e2f-4911-8791-ac847ab6ea37" data-xs-start="1972.241" data-xs-end="1974.187"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1972&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1972.241" aria-label="Play from 00:32:52">Jewel Conch in Korea.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="bddea5be-0d37-4c64-a09f-4ffc4c915c0d" data-xs-start="1975.237" data-xs-end="1978.519"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1975&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1975.237" aria-label="Play from 00:32:55">We have six sleepy woman over there.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5cb3a4a2-d812-44dc-8ce5-c9d6d60eb40e" data-xs-start="1982.606" data-xs-end="1983.392"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1982&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1982.606" aria-label="Play from 00:33:02">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8f11648a-0d63-49c5-8017-8d3a96a63197" data-xs-start="1983.589" data-xs-end="1984.266"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1983&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1983.589" aria-label="Play from 00:33:03">All right.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="43f090d1-a224-43f5-88d4-037cf86ef0eb" data-xs-start="1986.043" data-xs-end="1987.387"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1986&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1986.043" aria-label="Play from 00:33:06">They can't hurt us.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="1990.187" data-xs-start="1990.187" data-xs-end="2010.896"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1990&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1990.187" aria-label="Play from 00:33:10">00:33:10</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6e26e8fb-26dc-44f8-8f00-89ced40d200e" data-xs-start="1990.187" data-xs-end="1993.592"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1990&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1990.187" aria-label="Play from 00:33:10">I also want you to also be very careful.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5139f1bc-ee37-4a3b-b618-75e4e583c422" data-xs-start="1993.592" data-xs-end="1997.151"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1993&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1993.592" aria-label="Play from 00:33:13">Because when they're angry at you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="27550009-38e2-4c4b-9c44-ce99124d53da" data-xs-start="1997.151" data-xs-end="2000.266"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1997&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1997.151" aria-label="Play from 00:33:17">and they say something to release their anger</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="23e0c2bd-f385-414f-b889-2985c3672267" data-xs-start="2000.266" data-xs-end="2001.648"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2000&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2000.266" aria-label="Play from 00:33:20">which is a good thing for them.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8001f514-d356-49c8-be3f-a3807e872195" data-xs-start="2001.815" data-xs-end="2006.126"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2001&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2001.815" aria-label="Play from 00:33:21">It's better they release upon you than your children</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e5a14dee-8388-4afd-89b0-8179fde621ba" data-xs-start="2006.215" data-xs-end="2007.916"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2006&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2006.215" aria-label="Play from 00:33:26">than other people;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="60306bff-570e-487e-84eb-cee91fb00e4b" data-xs-start="2007.916" data-xs-end="2009.22"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2007&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2007.916" aria-label="Play from 00:33:27">than your neighbors,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="db2f851e-7ca3-494b-8692-c04bc724ff7f" data-xs-start="2009.22" data-xs-end="2010.494"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2009&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2009.22" aria-label="Play from 00:33:29">than your parents.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="62abb7af-60a7-4046-9b02-400e49ef0cf2" data-xs-start="2010.494" data-xs-end="2010.896"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2010&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2010.494" aria-label="Play from 00:33:30">Right?</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2012.964" data-xs-start="2012.964" data-xs-end="2037.468"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2012&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2012.964" aria-label="Play from 00:33:32">00:33:32</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e367f6f7-0ff5-4e48-898f-bfe045790c51" data-xs-start="2012.964" data-xs-end="2014.531"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2012&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2012.964" aria-label="Play from 00:33:32">But this case here,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="31f24d59-fdc6-4092-83aa-d39b0ae39720" data-xs-start="2014.531" data-xs-end="2015.784"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2014&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2014.531" aria-label="Play from 00:33:34">the professor says,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3c0ff1c5-07b8-47c9-8630-cbb709453c7b" data-xs-start="2015.784" data-xs-end="2015.945"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2015&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2015.784" aria-label="Play from 00:33:35">you know,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="f2a6d3a4-8f11-4a87-bf2c-2fa9b05ef160" data-xs-start="2015.945" data-xs-end="2016.937"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2015&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2015.945" aria-label="Play from 00:33:35">especially my...</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="57082612-3f01-494f-a01b-0ea46acd9e1c" data-xs-start="2017.823" data-xs-end="2018.145"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2017&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2017.823" aria-label="Play from 00:33:37">you know,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b5c7030d-76f7-4c72-81f9-dc269970e4c0" data-xs-start="2018.145" data-xs-end="2021.273"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2018&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2018.145" aria-label="Play from 00:33:38">my parents or...</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2e9f43bc-029b-43db-89c4-73b7b849690c" data-xs-start="2023.249" data-xs-end="2026.899"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2023&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2023.249" aria-label="Play from 00:33:43">If they happen to be the people who are close to you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="f008671d-bd81-4d4f-afa0-43a29530fbb0" data-xs-start="2027.76" data-xs-end="2029.407"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2027&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2027.76" aria-label="Play from 00:33:47">It's a good thing for you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a340b771-9a2f-4324-8caf-cdfd25b90749" data-xs-start="2029.407" data-xs-end="2030.476"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2029&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2029.407" aria-label="Play from 00:33:49">to be there for them</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6190df2f-ec58-4353-b937-e1b9f09c1017" data-xs-start="2030.476" data-xs-end="2032.2"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2030&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2030.476" aria-label="Play from 00:33:50">to release upon you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6dde2276-86a6-4ac3-9e23-59d7ad4675e7" data-xs-start="2032.2" data-xs-end="2033.641"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2032&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2032.2" aria-label="Play from 00:33:52">because they cannot harm you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3fa7e277-0fa5-4cd7-a439-e8d096f01e20" data-xs-start="2034.451" data-xs-end="2035.564"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2034&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2034.451" aria-label="Play from 00:33:54">They cannot hurt you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2918ed89-07a7-4b0b-8403-68afc16ac84c" data-xs-start="2036.831" data-xs-end="2037.468"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2036&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2036.831" aria-label="Play from 00:33:56">Okay.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2037.468" data-xs-start="2037.468" data-xs-end="2149.895"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2037&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2037.468" aria-label="Play from 00:33:57">00:33:57</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="971dc831-7fff-4301-8aa9-b31a16359b3c" data-xs-start="2037.468" data-xs-end="2038.9"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2037&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2037.468" aria-label="Play from 00:33:57">This is what I'd like you to do:</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2c4eb791-62d2-42a8-88a5-6a100ba466e6" data-xs-start="2039.067" data-xs-end="2039.747"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2039&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2039.067" aria-label="Play from 00:33:59">if your dad,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="83d30dd5-4365-4e7e-9f47-761fa8994dda" data-xs-start="2039.747" data-xs-end="2040.438"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2039&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2039.747" aria-label="Play from 00:33:59">for example,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="cb72a020-34a1-4602-9f81-ef11f728bbdb" data-xs-start="2040.438" data-xs-end="2041.709"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2040&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2040.438" aria-label="Play from 00:34:00">gets upset at you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="61a309c8-aa5d-4e1f-af62-ddca0d879f32" data-xs-start="2041.709" data-xs-end="2042.772"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2041&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2041.709" aria-label="Play from 00:34:01">and yells at you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="46e21390-e387-4946-9ed5-ca13efe90a6f" data-xs-start="2042.772" data-xs-end="2045.002"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2042&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2042.772" aria-label="Play from 00:34:02">and direct his anger energy at you,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1cd3a439-fc91-4654-9468-23f3ab1e0c1c" data-xs-start="2045.002" data-xs-end="2045.672"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2045&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2045.002" aria-label="Play from 00:34:05">okay,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8efd82ca-6fab-492a-8b44-40a93375d4de" data-xs-start="2051.204" data-xs-end="2051.923"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2051&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2051.204" aria-label="Play from 00:34:11">absorb it.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4c3dc732-25bc-4c93-b014-def82b28a89e" data-xs-start="2053.988" data-xs-end="2055.295"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2053&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2053.988" aria-label="Play from 00:34:13">Don't reject it.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0aea4dfd-9d45-4410-868f-4d1399844e5c" data-xs-start="2055.295" data-xs-end="2056.335"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2055&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2055.295" aria-label="Play from 00:34:15">Don't run away.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="302b4e78-510c-4cde-89c0-0640da5613b3" data-xs-start="2056.696" data-xs-end="2057.473"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2056&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2056.696" aria-label="Play from 00:34:16">Absorb it.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e6a47676-630a-4348-b9a7-53ceb810ee12" data-xs-start="2058.194" data-xs-end="2059.038"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2058&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2058.194" aria-label="Play from 00:34:18">Why?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a649f7a0-58c9-4ec0-aa4f-f3132ee2d043" data-xs-start="2061.256" data-xs-end="2065.017"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2061&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2061.256" aria-label="Play from 00:34:21">You help them release their anger energy</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="658080e8-7bec-48de-b774-271746a667d1" data-xs-start="2065.017" data-xs-end="2066.068"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2065&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2065.017" aria-label="Play from 00:34:25">so that they</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b1de14d9-a70f-4b04-afcc-70077d19c5c1" data-xs-start="2069.214" data-xs-end="2072.595"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2069&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2069.214" aria-label="Play from 00:34:29">can calm down and not hurt others.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="038fa5c3-462c-4683-9965-11170021119a" data-xs-start="2074.383" data-xs-end="2075.477"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2074&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2074.383" aria-label="Play from 00:34:34">You're helping them</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1c89f9ea-8b74-4be3-a64a-8e848e90b225" data-xs-start="2075.477" data-xs-end="2077.799"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2075&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2075.477" aria-label="Play from 00:34:35">and you're helping others around you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="f1f591d2-e008-4ba0-b261-a31bf39cfb5d" data-xs-start="2078.98" data-xs-end="2080.467"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2078&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2078.98" aria-label="Play from 00:34:38">Especially if you have children,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4b5b2d3a-708d-44f8-b63b-6ad384919436" data-xs-start="2080.467" data-xs-end="2081.514"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2080&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2080.467" aria-label="Play from 00:34:40">younger children,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1d783487-c8ed-4517-948b-634110eb28c3" data-xs-start="2081.514" data-xs-end="2084.474"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2081&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2081.514" aria-label="Play from 00:34:41">you don't want to have an angry adult around them.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="17798b80-5df1-4fae-99af-29f78a004e0c" data-xs-start="2084.784" data-xs-end="2086.703"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2084&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2084.784" aria-label="Play from 00:34:44">You suck up that anger energy.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5a925107-9303-4843-9f13-6f4ab2ad6716" data-xs-start="2086.703" data-xs-end="2089.641"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2086&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2086.703" aria-label="Play from 00:34:46">Let them direct that anger energy towards you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2a44260e-beed-49da-9da1-fe60fe42c33d" data-xs-start="2089.641" data-xs-end="2090.353"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2089&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2089.641" aria-label="Play from 00:34:49">so that</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="dd4329a4-903a-420d-ac87-355743297c59" data-xs-start="2090.588" data-xs-end="2091.496"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2090&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2090.588" aria-label="Play from 00:34:50">they use it up,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d7a7a2d1-93f8-4645-b07c-c64b62ac614c" data-xs-start="2091.496" data-xs-end="2092.389"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2091&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2091.496" aria-label="Play from 00:34:51">they use up—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="95d769d1-b549-4726-9cba-4f056c27a341" data-xs-start="2092.89" data-xs-end="2093.649"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2092&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2092.89" aria-label="Play from 00:34:52">faster.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1d795e4d-e1c6-4c52-9ce1-b7a9deb5ad47" data-xs-start="2096.005" data-xs-end="2096.601"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2096&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2096.005" aria-label="Play from 00:34:56">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="46925a5c-669b-42b8-b2ab-50d3f792442c" data-xs-start="2096.912" data-xs-end="2099.121"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2096&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2096.912" aria-label="Play from 00:34:56">And have no worries,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="f9bdab89-7dfe-40bd-b9c9-aa05e3594d35" data-xs-start="2099.121" data-xs-end="2101.184"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2099&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2099.121" aria-label="Play from 00:34:59">you're so much stronger than they are;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b88abd38-e5da-43d5-ac0f-437976c5ea53" data-xs-start="2101.371" data-xs-end="2104.915"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2101&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2101.371" aria-label="Play from 00:35:01">there's nothing they can do to you that's permanent.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3109ca5f-f502-4289-b573-1ea7e2ec7d50" data-xs-start="2104.915" data-xs-end="2106.177"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2104&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2104.915" aria-label="Play from 00:35:04">They're just unpleasant.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="242bbbdc-783c-4353-8089-6c17b119bd68" data-xs-start="2106.277" data-xs-end="2106.941"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2106&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2106.277" aria-label="Play from 00:35:06">That's all.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c9f2f62b-3a77-484c-a244-9e2d10fc0194" data-xs-start="2107.687" data-xs-end="2108.783"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2107&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2107.687" aria-label="Play from 00:35:07">And just like,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="78313452-d4c5-47e4-a59d-c23e3c603585" data-xs-start="2109.057" data-xs-end="2109.449"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2109&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2109.057" aria-label="Play from 00:35:09">you know,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="f4fa3844-da98-4414-b5d3-62c0f3c94d18" data-xs-start="2109.449" data-xs-end="2111.184"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2109&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2109.449" aria-label="Play from 00:35:09">you have a kid hitting you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="05aa9c35-7ec1-47f3-bc47-59b76f45dd4f" data-xs-start="2111.184" data-xs-end="2111.794"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2111&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2111.184" aria-label="Play from 00:35:11">in the arm,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d448e24a-96a2-41b7-89e4-93a90e6506d5" data-xs-start="2111.794" data-xs-end="2112.455"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2111&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2111.794" aria-label="Play from 00:35:11">in the body—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="63ab7b08-3f19-402e-b2a6-e8c0a591b396" data-xs-start="2112.455" data-xs-end="2113.155"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2112&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2112.455" aria-label="Play from 00:35:12">Yes, it hurts.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="68336d95-c2d6-4ac7-b1f0-5987a2dda243" data-xs-start="2113.155" data-xs-end="2114.196"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2113&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2113.155" aria-label="Play from 00:35:13">Yes, it's unpleasant</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="93ec20b1-188e-4f52-8eb4-207774b58050" data-xs-start="2114.399" data-xs-end="2118.458"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2114&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2114.399" aria-label="Play from 00:35:14">but it's no permanent damage at all.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7a158d98-81d3-49df-9b02-64edaac5e027" data-xs-start="2118.678" data-xs-end="2119.529"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2118&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2118.678" aria-label="Play from 00:35:18">Have no fear.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e2b54bc1-2955-467b-b03d-0362da8879fe" data-xs-start="2120.487" data-xs-end="2121.315"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2120&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2120.487" aria-label="Play from 00:35:20">Embrace it</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="51a3a8a2-568f-4fbf-845b-7e251df6cba2" data-xs-start="2121.762" data-xs-end="2124.457"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2121&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2121.762" aria-label="Play from 00:35:21">as your way of helping them</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="bb52958f-7fe7-4e05-863d-33de25bc0314" data-xs-start="2124.457" data-xs-end="2125.108"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2124&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2124.457" aria-label="Play from 00:35:24">right then</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="dcd7607a-e9cf-4fb5-bd64-80f30de6dfed" data-xs-start="2125.108" data-xs-end="2126.949"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2125&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2125.108" aria-label="Play from 00:35:25">to release the anger energy</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b26e2eea-3a20-4dee-bda4-40704b5ef1e3" data-xs-start="2126.949" data-xs-end="2130.654"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2126&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2126.949" aria-label="Play from 00:35:26">because the anger energy is not good for their bodies,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="333d6be5-13af-4553-9323-cd4553d40564" data-xs-start="2130.89" data-xs-end="2131.483"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2130&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2130.89" aria-label="Play from 00:35:30">by the way.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="adc4fdca-eb94-46ce-a879-4c9b2c6eea10" data-xs-start="2131.838" data-xs-end="2133.58"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2131&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2131.838" aria-label="Play from 00:35:31">They're hurting their own bodies.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c8da716a-21e0-4ceb-8941-f61c3a74b24c" data-xs-start="2134.497" data-xs-end="2135.405"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2134&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2134.497" aria-label="Play from 00:35:34">Thank you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="acc9dd4a-abfd-407a-8b9c-1eb684ddc7ad" data-xs-start="2137.098" data-xs-end="2137.651"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2137&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2137.098" aria-label="Play from 00:35:37">So,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b717bfac-8fe1-4f8d-bcc8-dd582c055699" data-xs-start="2137.651" data-xs-end="2139.18"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2137&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2137.651" aria-label="Play from 00:35:37">help them release it,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1a68fa5e-5039-4c48-af56-175cfd15f0de" data-xs-start="2139.561" data-xs-end="2140.09"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2139&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2139.561" aria-label="Play from 00:35:39">okay,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d20cd68e-c570-434d-80f0-8d355d3833f8" data-xs-start="2140.208" data-xs-end="2143.399"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2140&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2140.208" aria-label="Play from 00:35:40">and you deplete their anger energy</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7f9fb5b0-f26f-430e-ad05-48a29f4ac89e" data-xs-start="2143.399" data-xs-end="2146.283"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2143&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2143.399" aria-label="Play from 00:35:43">so that they cannot direct it at your children,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="511a73db-fa76-4a43-a7d1-1fe04bd89649" data-xs-start="2146.458" data-xs-end="2149.895"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2146&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2146.458" aria-label="Play from 00:35:46">at the rest of the family.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2153.646" data-xs-start="2153.646" data-xs-end="2184.113"><span class="tag-epage-cue" hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" data-source-id="f6d6151f-2bb7-445d-b7ff-4823abca483d" data-xs-start="2164.502" data-xs-end="2165.252"></span><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2153&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2153.646" aria-label="Play from 00:35:53">00:35:53</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e18a48ee-52cb-497f-ae2d-dffdffd94277" data-xs-start="2153.646" data-xs-end="2154.968"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2153&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2153.646" aria-label="Play from 00:35:53">If it's a stranger</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="596020f5-3b51-4114-b0b6-349c4b6ed5df" data-xs-start="2156.762" data-xs-end="2158.217"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2156&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2156.762" aria-label="Play from 00:35:56">then you have two options.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="61222b50-5b12-4067-83d1-5cf298e96faa" data-xs-start="2158.971" data-xs-end="2159.628"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2158&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2158.971" aria-label="Play from 00:35:58">I teach you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="f70d4da7-b563-4c3a-afad-5b7bfd5987b4" data-xs-start="2160.582" data-xs-end="2162.003"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2160&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2160.582" aria-label="Play from 00:36:00">Number 1: run away.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6e50f662-219c-4e1e-927b-bc3656468d00" data-xs-start="2162.003" data-xs-end="2162.259"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2162&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2162.003" aria-label="Play from 00:36:02">You say,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d979e6fd-d45f-4f40-8e14-090e239d178f" data-xs-start="2162.259" data-xs-end="2163.145"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2162&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2162.259" aria-label="Play from 00:36:02">"Oh, excuse me.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="caed9a9e-ba30-4bf9-8fef-a651c7c644cc" data-xs-start="2163.145" data-xs-end="2164.502"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2163&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2163.145" aria-label="Play from 00:36:03">I need to go to the bathroom."</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ec2dcbcf-5012-49e2-b678-b6fe06fb383d" data-xs-start="2165.597" data-xs-end="2166.06"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2165&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2165.597" aria-label="Play from 00:36:05">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6243cbd8-ccb6-4e7f-8523-ba22156a7a10" data-xs-start="2166.767" data-xs-end="2167.729"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2166&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2166.767" aria-label="Play from 00:36:06">And just run away.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ccd9b8b9-9c3d-4660-ab7a-348157559c3d" data-xs-start="2167.729" data-xs-end="2169.194"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2167&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2167.729" aria-label="Play from 00:36:07">You don't care for these people.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5a1c4309-e31b-40d3-84d6-37fbe7954d74" data-xs-start="2176.82" data-xs-end="2177.289"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2176&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2176.82" aria-label="Play from 00:36:16">Just,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d3e4adc1-733e-410f-a208-0c24bbc8cfd3" data-xs-start="2177.289" data-xs-end="2179.174"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2177&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2177.289" aria-label="Play from 00:36:17">"Excuse me. I'll be right back.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e5b0951d-8559-4176-a2da-e667b63d8972" data-xs-start="2179.383" data-xs-end="2182.784"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2179&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2179.383" aria-label="Play from 00:36:19">And where's your bathroom?"</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="f581db57-7dbe-473b-8add-b45c125db66e" data-xs-start="2182.784" data-xs-end="2184.113"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2182&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2182.784" aria-label="Play from 00:36:22">Go to the bathroom.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2195.502" data-xs-start="2195.502" data-xs-end="2283.694"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2195&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2195.502" aria-label="Play from 00:36:35">00:36:35</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="78c80566-6baa-4ddf-80cb-e233bb630511" data-xs-start="2195.502" data-xs-end="2199.853"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2195&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2195.502" aria-label="Play from 00:36:35">Or you want to teach them a lesson,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="911cb0a3-0e02-4662-8315-e205a406ef46" data-xs-start="2202.538" data-xs-end="2209.575"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2202&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2202.538" aria-label="Play from 00:36:42">let me teach you one thing because this will motivate you to build your Samadhi.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4bd515c9-661f-43e2-bc4f-177d5f2bf478" data-xs-start="2210.424" data-xs-end="2210.901"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2210&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2210.424" aria-label="Play from 00:36:50">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="bd703c6f-1083-4355-ba34-e5ec053f736c" data-xs-start="2210.901" data-xs-end="2215.257"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2210&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2210.901" aria-label="Play from 00:36:50">You look at them in the eyes because they're looking at you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b01bdfcd-d13e-4d5e-8e82-3770e9aeeb84" data-xs-start="2215.257" data-xs-end="2216.674"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2215&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2215.257" aria-label="Play from 00:36:55">It's very unpleasant right?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8d3e18c0-0587-4427-8aba-9070004ed693" data-xs-start="2217.871" data-xs-end="2218.998"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2217&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2217.871" aria-label="Play from 00:36:57">Mentally,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="789e64ce-fb43-45a9-8d73-1f3e8d34659d" data-xs-start="2219.662" data-xs-end="2220.605"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2219&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2219.662" aria-label="Play from 00:36:59">push back.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a8ea7c88-7283-4a0c-bea0-3eca730db3ad" data-xs-start="2222.364" data-xs-end="2225.309"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2222&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2222.364" aria-label="Play from 00:37:02">This is what a nun did to me when I first started.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="73c76cb6-ca44-4d36-8f77-61131754fabb" data-xs-start="2226.317" data-xs-end="2227.208"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2226&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2226.317" aria-label="Play from 00:37:06">You push it back—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8ccefc8e-2098-479e-8883-27f489ad213a" data-xs-start="2228.245" data-xs-end="2229.025"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2228&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2228.245" aria-label="Play from 00:37:08">slowy.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5d3ee97d-b284-427e-8347-7190ff55ec13" data-xs-start="2230.26" data-xs-end="2232.603"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2230&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2230.26" aria-label="Play from 00:37:10">So you can see yourself a difference</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="aca57087-5c61-4cba-8e98-cc53ef190bed" data-xs-start="2232.818" data-xs-end="2235.213"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2232&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2232.818" aria-label="Play from 00:37:12">that you're not as bothered.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1d0ff0dd-ee7b-492b-9d23-b1b6ec14bfec" data-xs-start="2236.757" data-xs-end="2240.056"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2236&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2236.757" aria-label="Play from 00:37:16">It bothers you because you allow them to invade you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9fdbd66f-1182-4dd2-86b1-d07b61a14c9a" data-xs-start="2240.056" data-xs-end="2241.267"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2240&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2240.056" aria-label="Play from 00:37:20">Now you push back.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b30d2839-077e-46bc-9f11-eb3402080c7f" data-xs-start="2243.877" data-xs-end="2245.474"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2243&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2243.877" aria-label="Play from 00:37:23">I want you to stop in the middle.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6d654d77-fe86-47f0-89ef-d8d1c1894673" data-xs-start="2245.474" data-xs-end="2246.978"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2245&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2245.474" aria-label="Play from 00:37:25">Do not go further than that</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9c073884-88db-4b1f-8fbd-14b8acfcdece" data-xs-start="2247.799" data-xs-end="2249.548"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2247&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2247.799" aria-label="Play from 00:37:27">because when you go past—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4dc0bd53-e244-41b6-8953-89f698e483aa" data-xs-start="2249.548" data-xs-end="2250.243"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2249&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2249.548" aria-label="Play from 00:37:29">close—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="18b4eb22-3d98-48a3-862d-b8cc8b318ac6" data-xs-start="2250.514" data-xs-end="2252.214"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2250&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2250.514" aria-label="Play from 00:37:30">closer to their bodies;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="41799ec4-7bf7-4dd6-b143-e84c7ab45c63" data-xs-start="2252.477" data-xs-end="2254.144"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2252&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2252.477" aria-label="Play from 00:37:32">especially to their eyes—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1ab1c47d-296f-4dc0-ac3f-16af994e95b2" data-xs-start="2254.144" data-xs-end="2255.775"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2254&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2254.144" aria-label="Play from 00:37:34">it becomes offensive.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="18b0b557-b885-4ca1-b25b-8fa06676bd2b" data-xs-start="2257.51" data-xs-end="2259.27"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2257&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2257.51" aria-label="Play from 00:37:37">All you do is push it back.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5584d407-3e17-4cb9-bd6a-81d161398d4b" data-xs-start="2261.31" data-xs-end="2262.654"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2261&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2261.31" aria-label="Play from 00:37:41">There's a wall right there.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e12af441-d3c8-4a7e-9694-f5b496ed4f62" data-xs-start="2264.605" data-xs-end="2266.417"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2264&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2264.605" aria-label="Play from 00:37:44">Who's in charge?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e53e7b91-59ed-46f9-a1b1-49dd9ee5ab8d" data-xs-start="2267.083" data-xs-end="2268.155"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2267&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2267.083" aria-label="Play from 00:37:47">I am in charge.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="31287caa-afd5-407f-95b7-7f015e078854" data-xs-start="2268.155" data-xs-end="2268.819"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2268&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2268.155" aria-label="Play from 00:37:48">Not you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d2a3bcf7-d1b4-4f73-af67-d09648452c3f" data-xs-start="2270.597" data-xs-end="2272.09"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2270&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2270.597" aria-label="Play from 00:37:50">Because I'm stronger</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="cd2d5bba-7d27-4dc3-b4ec-aa408ab4d596" data-xs-start="2272.09" data-xs-end="2273.211"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2272&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2272.09" aria-label="Play from 00:37:52">I will not hurt you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2968d024-c518-4296-9608-392326e4e43c" data-xs-start="2273.327" data-xs-end="2274.104"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2273&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2273.327" aria-label="Play from 00:37:53">but</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="58e652de-5123-4b49-8331-4a048c2a38f9" data-xs-start="2275.321" data-xs-end="2276.778"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2275&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2275.321" aria-label="Play from 00:37:55">I'm in charge.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="95086351-4d53-4e30-bff4-ea7b587920b8" data-xs-start="2276.778" data-xs-end="2279.091"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2276&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2276.778" aria-label="Play from 00:37:56">This is where it stops.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5e98fdff-ab33-412a-93c5-2277365fc945" data-xs-start="2280.895" data-xs-end="2283.694"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2280&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2280.895" aria-label="Play from 00:38:00">That is only if you want to impress them.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2289.311" data-xs-start="2289.311" data-xs-end="2296.83"><span class="tag-epage-cue" hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" data-source-id="68d9bf16-de8d-4d0b-8431-efd09ca32b4e" data-xs-start="2291.097" data-xs-end="2296.83"></span><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2289&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2289.311" aria-label="Play from 00:38:09">00:38:09</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1670e3f0-1ef1-4eb5-bf24-3cf380bc9c43" data-xs-start="2289.311" data-xs-end="2290.611"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2289&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2289.311" aria-label="Play from 00:38:09">What happend to applause?</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2296.83" data-xs-start="2296.83" data-xs-end="2315.137"><span class="tag-epage-cue" hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" data-source-id="75008e08-7b53-4eb9-9ae2-cbf49990709c" data-xs-start="2309.998" data-xs-end="2310.24"></span><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2296&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2296.83" aria-label="Play from 00:38:16">00:38:16</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8780bc44-8797-4e2d-b34d-5cad58d1ad79" data-xs-start="2296.83" data-xs-end="2297.887"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2296&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2296.83" aria-label="Play from 00:38:16">We're not weak.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="99fb61a4-f754-4f2d-8e04-a29be71e0294" data-xs-start="2298.704" data-xs-end="2301.377"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2298&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2298.704" aria-label="Play from 00:38:18">Sometimes we need to assert ourselves.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ca86711e-82f5-46d7-aac3-42aec2c306f8" data-xs-start="2303.688" data-xs-end="2304.198"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2303&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2303.688" aria-label="Play from 00:38:23">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5cff8c7c-afb6-4475-bd06-b29c2a44afcf" data-xs-start="2304.608" data-xs-end="2306.502"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2304&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2304.608" aria-label="Play from 00:38:24">I assert myself differently.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6f148d41-7d33-4ce1-b331-51696a573bf8" data-xs-start="2306.502" data-xs-end="2308.147"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2306&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2306.502" aria-label="Play from 00:38:26">I do not even have to go where I—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c8acd82a-12e5-481b-87b1-e7895670b136" data-xs-start="2308.147" data-xs-end="2309.489"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2308&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2308.147" aria-label="Play from 00:38:28">through what I teach you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2fe01b91-baed-45d7-a334-5ee35e606d84" data-xs-start="2310.24" data-xs-end="2311.726"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2310&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2310.24" aria-label="Play from 00:38:30">This is what it takes,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="abd62287-431a-4d78-82b6-0e51504546bb" data-xs-start="2312.361" data-xs-end="2312.895"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2312&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2312.361" aria-label="Play from 00:38:32">okay,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="de4124e3-4a75-4390-b120-20fefadd596c" data-xs-start="2313.114" data-xs-end="2315.137"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2313&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2313.114" aria-label="Play from 00:38:33">if you get more advanced.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2476.037" data-xs-start="2476.037" data-xs-end="2531.334"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2476&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2476.037" aria-label="Play from 00:41:16">00:41:16</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0dda2b5b-d228-4a92-8a69-7469c968c873" data-xs-start="2476.037" data-xs-end="2477.901"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2476&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2476.037" aria-label="Play from 00:41:16">You have to let them hurt you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b0506914-74bf-4b4d-a402-f704b2766168" data-xs-start="2478.844" data-xs-end="2481.074"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2478&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2478.844" aria-label="Play from 00:41:18">It's your father, let him hurt you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="180af5a2-695a-48ba-8645-048d7f897f8f" data-xs-start="2481.466" data-xs-end="2483.123"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2481&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2481.466" aria-label="Play from 00:41:21">It's your mother, let her hurt you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b43849c0-3934-461c-a2b0-49cae76c6336" data-xs-start="2483.794" data-xs-end="2484.526"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2483&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2483.794" aria-label="Play from 00:41:23">Why?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8a043914-ea64-4647-9cfb-67f6626b43b5" data-xs-start="2485.177" data-xs-end="2485.696"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2485&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2485.177" aria-label="Play from 00:41:25">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="89728c05-def0-4cbf-809f-402fd3c570d0" data-xs-start="2487.54" data-xs-end="2488.995"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2487&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2487.54" aria-label="Play from 00:41:27">She'll naturally stop.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="53a2fdd3-d142-47c4-b496-9102ebb92c2e" data-xs-start="2489.282" data-xs-end="2489.633"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2489&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2489.282" aria-label="Play from 00:41:29">Says,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="70ae6d9d-ec47-45bb-8f04-41a9e4ccb0c6" data-xs-start="2489.633" data-xs-end="2490.287"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2489&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2489.633" aria-label="Play from 00:41:29">"Uh-oh.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="00cef371-3939-4508-a140-62b2c66e0408" data-xs-start="2490.472" data-xs-end="2491.47"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2490&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2490.472" aria-label="Play from 00:41:30">uh-oh."</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a04f8367-10d2-4457-8c45-2fcb251b8b11" data-xs-start="2493.208" data-xs-end="2493.768"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2493&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2493.208" aria-label="Play from 00:41:33">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="05fac196-6f18-4297-9dbf-e3729709668a" data-xs-start="2494.131" data-xs-end="2499.318"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2494&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2494.131" aria-label="Play from 00:41:34">And so let them hurt you because you're stronger.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6ea08ec2-f01b-4f29-89ea-66659e5657a2" data-xs-start="2499.553" data-xs-end="2499.942"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2499&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2499.553" aria-label="Play from 00:41:39">You know,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="499337aa-e16d-4b47-a4ab-a1a88ce9e897" data-xs-start="2499.942" data-xs-end="2502.574"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2499&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2499.942" aria-label="Play from 00:41:39">let them punch you and you get a bruise.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="56d29ba6-851e-4536-9c00-617bdf2ee230" data-xs-start="2502.574" data-xs-end="2503.299"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2502&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2502.574" aria-label="Play from 00:41:42">So what?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="cea064b6-ffbf-4a4f-9b77-3bccaf0837ef" data-xs-start="2503.299" data-xs-end="2503.832"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2503&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2503.299" aria-label="Play from 00:41:43">You're not.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="dd95aa10-a389-4543-846d-0d67debee24f" data-xs-start="2503.832" data-xs-end="2505.086"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2503&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2503.832" aria-label="Play from 00:41:43">You're not going to die.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ece6c6b7-068f-4d13-b5e3-b77330f7b00e" data-xs-start="2507.367" data-xs-end="2508.677"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2507&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2507.367" aria-label="Play from 00:41:47">That's point number two.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e08a221b-de62-4fa2-a222-6b470c85b734" data-xs-start="2509.559" data-xs-end="2511.14"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2509&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2509.559" aria-label="Play from 00:41:49">The bruise will heal.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="37887435-fd03-48ae-a8df-c445be189583" data-xs-start="2513.494" data-xs-end="2515.22"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2513&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2513.494" aria-label="Play from 00:41:53">They can't break your arms.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ca24ac96-767a-43c1-92ad-3c99197f5222" data-xs-start="2516.323" data-xs-end="2518.962"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2516&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2516.323" aria-label="Play from 00:41:56">They're not strong enough to break the arms.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7eee4dde-69a8-48fe-b235-5fae3a1210bc" data-xs-start="2518.962" data-xs-end="2520.969"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2518&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2518.962" aria-label="Play from 00:41:58">They're not strong to have—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="373b848f-afb0-4ffe-92cc-85b4cd9bd90d" data-xs-start="2520.969" data-xs-end="2524.157"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2520&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2520.969" aria-label="Play from 00:42:00">to inflict permanent damages to your body.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6dd0e63d-0c99-4ede-be37-58aaab777890" data-xs-start="2524.506" data-xs-end="2526.022"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2524&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2524.506" aria-label="Play from 00:42:04">So out of love,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="817a1c30-91aa-4682-9bef-5dda3168c050" data-xs-start="2526.31" data-xs-end="2527.376"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2526&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2526.31" aria-label="Play from 00:42:06">out of caring,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e3d72e15-9ea4-4143-bb5f-8e3346440448" data-xs-start="2527.376" data-xs-end="2529.06"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2527&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2527.376" aria-label="Play from 00:42:07">out of consideration for them;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1ea86e64-2293-4785-b063-6853eb62b085" data-xs-start="2529.06" data-xs-end="2530.077"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2529&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2529.06" aria-label="Play from 00:42:09">let them hurt you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="31f4c9fc-99b5-448e-8d82-3a95d496e733" data-xs-start="2530.512" data-xs-end="2531.334"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2530&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2530.512" aria-label="Play from 00:42:10">It's okay.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2532.111" data-xs-start="2532.111" data-xs-end="2583.227"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2532&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2532.111" aria-label="Play from 00:42:12">00:42:12</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0d716dab-e82b-46ad-90e6-6b5d8e5280b2" data-xs-start="2532.111" data-xs-end="2537.696"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2532&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2532.111" aria-label="Play from 00:42:12">That's point number two because your Chan practice every day,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4fff3f7a-9f63-42f0-ac99-01035d605b07" data-xs-start="2537.985" data-xs-end="2541.931"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2537&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2537.985" aria-label="Play from 00:42:17">you recover so much faster than a normal person.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="703e7772-9cf2-4535-b83b-e2b6d345f781" data-xs-start="2545.61" data-xs-end="2548.355"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2545&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2545.61" aria-label="Play from 00:42:25">I would go and meditate right after.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="68451ac0-69b6-44aa-951a-c05c9540eead" data-xs-start="2548.355" data-xs-end="2550.973"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2548&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2548.355" aria-label="Play from 00:42:28">I would not wait for the next day to meditate.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="80e310d3-821e-4981-b891-18caca48cae0" data-xs-start="2551.48" data-xs-end="2552.274"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2551&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2551.48" aria-label="Play from 00:42:31">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="49f3fb62-32cf-4b51-a63d-ffda75fff173" data-xs-start="2552.274" data-xs-end="2555.483"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2552&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2552.274" aria-label="Play from 00:42:32">After I get beaten up</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1709ce91-7503-4859-b8be-25437b2c198d" data-xs-start="2555.483" data-xs-end="2556.235"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2555&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2555.483" aria-label="Play from 00:42:35">and get hurt;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="73285d52-85e3-4d5d-84f6-21da33992f2b" data-xs-start="2556.235" data-xs-end="2557.212"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2556&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2556.235" aria-label="Play from 00:42:36">I'm afflicted.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="40ada764-3c62-401d-9a54-a8f50926ec8e" data-xs-start="2557.212" data-xs-end="2557.75"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2557&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2557.212" aria-label="Play from 00:42:37">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9cdabddf-a531-4b1c-a024-2889456a05c4" data-xs-start="2558.197" data-xs-end="2559.397"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2558&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2558.197" aria-label="Play from 00:42:38">I'm not feeling good.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8b66f9aa-f918-4f69-bbf2-0e466b754774" data-xs-start="2559.956" data-xs-end="2562.36"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2559&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2559.956" aria-label="Play from 00:42:39">I go and meditate and recover.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0644277d-3f36-4301-b952-cb2719b0481f" data-xs-start="2563.508" data-xs-end="2567.728"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2563&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2563.508" aria-label="Play from 00:42:43">The Chan Meditaton will help you recover so much faster.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="66596a17-3fca-4cde-a887-76eefe16b1b3" data-xs-start="2568.408" data-xs-end="2570.152"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2568&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2568.408" aria-label="Play from 00:42:48">And that's life folks.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4c342f98-f158-4862-a171-e611c650e04b" data-xs-start="2572.378" data-xs-end="2574.241"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2572&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2572.378" aria-label="Play from 00:42:52">If you really care for people,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="72bcf52f-70da-41a5-90dd-0680da0caaab" data-xs-start="2574.842" data-xs-end="2576.164"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2574&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2574.842" aria-label="Play from 00:42:54">care for others,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7c8396e8-ed81-4d97-9b83-6dd84dfb14a4" data-xs-start="2576.593" data-xs-end="2577.797"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2576&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2576.593" aria-label="Play from 00:42:56">sometimes—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a6f6093e-51e2-4f8d-94e2-ba675252802a" data-xs-start="2577.797" data-xs-end="2583.227"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2577&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2577.797" aria-label="Play from 00:42:57">you have to let them hurt you so that they cannot hurt others.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
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