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<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-main-topic" data-epage-description-start="1714.85" data-xs-start="1714.85" data-xs-end="1761.304113"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><span class="tag-book-speaker-label tag-book-translator-role">Translator</span><span class="tag-book-speaker-label tag-book-translator-name">Vickie</span><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1714&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1714.85" aria-label="Play from 00:28:34">00:28:34</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6e954ac6-cca7-4eed-9d61-aed1767cbffe" data-xs-start="1714.85" data-xs-end="1715.5671"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1714&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1714.85" aria-label="Play from 00:28:34">Master,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4e60c1ec-9ca7-4bdc-9943-29c8502a0cb9" data-xs-start="1716.520486" data-xs-end="1719.924"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1716&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1716.520486" aria-label="Play from 00:28:36">when I'm looking at some people in the eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="458f9188-d249-4d11-b499-39ba64ee32c0" data-xs-start="1719.924" data-xs-end="1723.331"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1719&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1719.924" aria-label="Play from 00:28:39">I see a lot of anger and resentment.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e88611fb-1296-4045-8010-bcf6b5a9301f" data-xs-start="1723.846831" data-xs-end="1724.818"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1723&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1723.846831" aria-label="Play from 00:28:43">Because of that,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="cd0224b0-fcb8-4841-aa6a-26eb1309738c" data-xs-start="1724.818" data-xs-end="1727.399"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1724&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1724.818" aria-label="Play from 00:28:44">I'm reluctant to look at them in the eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d47442b1-d9e8-4990-af4b-c325c3bb0075" data-xs-start="1727.5518523534886" data-xs-end="1729.251579"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1727&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1727.5518523534886" aria-label="Play from 00:28:47">I like happy eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0be4fe10-f7d0-4862-a57f-c7b2391bd345" data-xs-start="1729.8606" data-xs-end="1733.248765"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1729&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1729.8606" aria-label="Play from 00:28:49">Should we look at people's eyes without discrimination?</a></span></div></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><span class="tag-book-speaker-label">Master YongHua</span><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1734&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1734.013" aria-label="Play from 00:28:54">00:28:54</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="07ff1109-c804-4725-87e1-48f1f9d28f96" data-xs-start="1734.013" data-xs-end="1734.746018"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1734&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1734.013" aria-label="Play from 00:28:54">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9894ab25-b38f-4cee-89a4-0c38e82ad517" data-xs-start="1734.746018" data-xs-end="1736.497"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1734&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1734.746018" aria-label="Play from 00:28:54">A real good question.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="358d1a90-1351-4be0-b548-aa73e467d1b0" data-xs-start="1737.749311" data-xs-end="1739.734"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1737&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1737.749311" aria-label="Play from 00:28:57">What happens when you're angry?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c6b628ea-19d9-40dd-999e-22ec3b020069" data-xs-start="1743.005852" data-xs-end="1745.335"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1743&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1743.005852" aria-label="Play from 00:29:03">You remember when your wife was angry at you?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d4c3f80f-8fac-4819-8b53-1357d5c108fe" data-xs-start="1746.26306" data-xs-end="1747.872"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1746&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1746.26306" aria-label="Play from 00:29:06">Your girlfriend's angry at you?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="aef6263e-09d6-47d2-bedb-ae93ef844eeb" data-xs-start="1750.294" data-xs-end="1752.549"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1750&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1750.294" aria-label="Play from 00:29:10">How can you possibly forget?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e9ce5f66-1d20-4095-8ddb-b864222b4b2e" data-xs-start="1752.549" data-xs-end="1753.045"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1752&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1752.549" aria-label="Play from 00:29:12">Huh?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="26077b45-d646-4f59-8050-6cf98592bae6" data-xs-start="1755.8303326084576" data-xs-end="1759.177"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1755&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1755.8303326084576" aria-label="Play from 00:29:15">You get nightmares when your wife is angry at you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="275e2a3b-f4dd-4963-9a65-25683c3ff618" data-xs-start="1760.6799325346449" data-xs-end="1761.304113"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1760&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1760.6799325346449" aria-label="Play from 00:29:20">Right?</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="1762.8046606622656" data-xs-start="1762.8046606622656" data-xs-end="1799.590126"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1762&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1762.8046606622656" aria-label="Play from 00:29:22">00:29:22</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6f3e93e0-c22c-49a8-a266-452a011d19bb" data-xs-start="1762.8046606622656" data-xs-end="1764.556395"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1762&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1762.8046606622656" aria-label="Play from 00:29:22">What happens when people are angry?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5598abd3-9ceb-4081-908f-b3e253aeed96" data-xs-start="1766.1815065435783" data-xs-end="1767.501"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1766&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1766.1815065435783" aria-label="Play from 00:29:26">They stare at you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="dbb77de8-8e85-4ca7-83de-bf27a63c94bd" data-xs-start="1767.501" data-xs-end="1768.061346"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1767&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1767.501" aria-label="Play from 00:29:27">Don't they?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="17f28354-4c30-49a7-8148-e0e41d99524a" data-xs-start="1768.061346" data-xs-end="1771.76581"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1768&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1768.061346" aria-label="Play from 00:29:28">This anger energy that comes out through their eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0a86dc81-1c24-4100-b668-c0da18e216dd" data-xs-start="1772.816493" data-xs-end="1773.541475"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1772&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1772.816493" aria-label="Play from 00:29:32">Right?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1a48918b-4ee9-4081-9892-dc4d221deb12" data-xs-start="1773.541475" data-xs-end="1774.943325"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1773&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1773.541475" aria-label="Play from 00:29:33">People don't realize that.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8050a9cc-945b-4f66-99ff-333a85e0907a" data-xs-start="1774.943325" data-xs-end="1776.776675"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1774&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1774.943325" aria-label="Play from 00:29:34">Normal people don't realize it.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2ba773f3-facb-4f96-97d6-cd6e05cd4edd" data-xs-start="1776.776675" data-xs-end="1778.206611"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1776&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1776.776675" aria-label="Play from 00:29:36">That when you're angry,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="47543a03-e49e-454e-93f3-0e4aab2e94d6" data-xs-start="1778.206611" data-xs-end="1782.023599"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1778&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1778.206611" aria-label="Play from 00:29:38">you really admit this anger energy.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1499d659-5f8a-4ebb-8f58-5b88dd5fb4ae" data-xs-start="1782.023599" data-xs-end="1782.848961"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1782&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1782.023599" aria-label="Play from 00:29:42">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="04af8cdb-9d77-4452-9f12-12cc0d3760f9" data-xs-start="1782.848961" data-xs-end="1784.491098"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1782&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1782.848961" aria-label="Play from 00:29:42">You send this anger energy</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d35500d8-6288-4dce-872c-73ec8ce7b4db" data-xs-start="1784.6833030386792" data-xs-end="1786.1"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1784&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1784.6833030386792" aria-label="Play from 00:29:44">through your eyes</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1194d354-21ae-44d4-bb54-632551bf0313" data-xs-start="1786.1" data-xs-end="1787.507697"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1786&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1786.1" aria-label="Play from 00:29:46">that people can observe.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="bf5e9783-7a4a-45e2-98a5-f8fe105f2248" data-xs-start="1787.507697" data-xs-end="1789.848177"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1787&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1787.507697" aria-label="Play from 00:29:47">You also send it through your mind as well.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="340f6fb5-7e4e-4a7d-9229-5d3dc9342968" data-xs-start="1790.351267" data-xs-end="1793.364048"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1790&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1790.351267" aria-label="Play from 00:29:50">Your mind as this but it goes through your eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5cec6c2d-6b24-4bd4-9366-74f25c5677f2" data-xs-start="1793.364048" data-xs-end="1793.850516"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1793&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1793.364048" aria-label="Play from 00:29:53">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="683993c3-e054-45c7-995f-c426518a91c6" data-xs-start="1794.5299581259508" data-xs-end="1795.4473664339055"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1794&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1794.5299581259508" aria-label="Play from 00:29:54">Observable.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="437cb6e0-95ee-4902-9e69-cb62807b4bbf" data-xs-start="1795.4473664339055" data-xs-end="1797.167273"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1795&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1795.4473664339055" aria-label="Play from 00:29:55">The eyes are observable</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="65bb0ab7-01b7-4348-bc70-da9be604d2a1" data-xs-start="1797.167273" data-xs-end="1799.117217"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1797&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1797.167273" aria-label="Play from 00:29:57">but it's the mind behind it.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="be62b0be-8f0d-419e-ac97-ee44eeb77d96" data-xs-start="1799.117217" data-xs-end="1799.590126"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1799&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1799.117217" aria-label="Play from 00:29:59">Okay.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="1799.590126" data-xs-start="1799.590126" data-xs-end="1889.565706"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1799&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1799.590126" aria-label="Play from 00:29:59">00:29:59</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a21312f1-1d43-4679-b069-a0395663f682" data-xs-start="1799.590126" data-xs-end="1801.357"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1799&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1799.590126" aria-label="Play from 00:29:59">So people can tell.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="653b36e8-36d0-44c3-a330-1e4f9a85a234" data-xs-start="1801.357" data-xs-end="1802.5705800578776"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1801&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1801.357" aria-label="Play from 00:30:01">You don't have to pretend</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ae2b6dfd-0f3b-4e6d-8057-7a1caab34497" data-xs-start="1802.5705800578776" data-xs-end="1803.914"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1802&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1802.5705800578776" aria-label="Play from 00:30:02">"No, I'm not angry."</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e1a3a072-9a9f-431a-8642-1fe76929dc0a" data-xs-start="1804.405592" data-xs-end="1805.0312254569756"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1804&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1804.405592" aria-label="Play from 00:30:04">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="09966911-f16f-4596-ac9e-1e952f75f748" data-xs-start="1805.2232406849037" data-xs-end="1807.074591"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1805&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1805.2232406849037" aria-label="Play from 00:30:05">And that behavior is from the mind;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="02103f2f-fd99-404b-8e49-3649377d0af3" data-xs-start="1807.074591" data-xs-end="1808.07851"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1807&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1807.074591" aria-label="Play from 00:30:07">from the angry mind.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6e334765-bde4-4bdc-9c49-d06396102fc9" data-xs-start="1810.323" data-xs-end="1811.061051"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1810&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1810.323" aria-label="Play from 00:30:10">All right.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="806bbd7d-4470-42f2-bf9d-d20f555a47ca" data-xs-start="1811.061051" data-xs-end="1811.543"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1811&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1811.061051" aria-label="Play from 00:30:11">No,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="09b00203-370b-43c1-b8a3-72ad4b323677" data-xs-start="1811.543" data-xs-end="1812.309391"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1811&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1811.543" aria-label="Play from 00:30:11">I'm not angry.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2a44e84d-0dee-4d7f-b50d-105e809e4af9" data-xs-start="1813.947" data-xs-end="1814.886"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1813&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1813.947" aria-label="Play from 00:30:13">How come you don't—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="64598084-09d8-44c1-8c83-294d668accc5" data-xs-start="1814.886" data-xs-end="1815.669246"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1814&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1814.886" aria-label="Play from 00:30:14">never get me.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="99450b8c-6e7d-4039-912f-1b4e690e73cb" data-xs-start="1815.669246" data-xs-end="1817.3"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1815&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1815.669246" aria-label="Play from 00:30:15">How come you never understand me.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="554d96ef-c3ef-4e54-91b4-72ce03ce3827" data-xs-start="1817.493352580213" data-xs-end="1817.909786"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1817&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1817.493352580213" aria-label="Play from 00:30:17">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b6281d86-1c9b-4d45-abeb-cca76c5d1e5b" data-xs-start="1817.909786" data-xs-end="1818.404402"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1817&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1817.909786" aria-label="Play from 00:30:17">See.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="88aaa32c-4278-4687-b28f-974fdb6da47e" data-xs-start="1818.404402" data-xs-end="1819.323757"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1818&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1818.404402" aria-label="Play from 00:30:18">Sounds familar?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="27c382ef-a433-4c92-8bf2-29695a20838d" data-xs-start="1820.937" data-xs-end="1821.54629"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1820&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1820.937" aria-label="Play from 00:30:20">All right.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3bd66903-874e-429b-aab2-b72a49b463ce" data-xs-start="1823.354212" data-xs-end="1825.26032"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1823&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1823.354212" aria-label="Play from 00:30:23">So that's why it's unpleasant.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a4cafb79-43f1-4f11-bd16-15878f091951" data-xs-start="1825.26032" data-xs-end="1826.057714"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1825&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1825.26032" aria-label="Play from 00:30:25">Of course.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a8c89236-07af-4fd2-822b-75288057b211" data-xs-start="1826.057714" data-xs-end="1827.275905"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1826&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1826.057714" aria-label="Play from 00:30:26">When you're like that—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1245ee40-787f-4dca-94a4-5c5757ee6724" data-xs-start="1827.4514048340122" data-xs-end="1828.019"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1827&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1827.4514048340122" aria-label="Play from 00:30:27">naturally,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d78bb3e4-23a1-4842-a3ec-2f2db4156648" data-xs-start="1828.019" data-xs-end="1828.875313"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1828&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1828.019" aria-label="Play from 00:30:28">people would</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="db95c0f3-a381-4bf7-b012-0559bc9fe47f" data-xs-start="1831.415" data-xs-end="1832.454426"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1831&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1831.415" aria-label="Play from 00:30:31">back off.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b01cbacb-471f-4e8f-bdda-85cbe474bcee" data-xs-start="1832.909637" data-xs-end="1836.092888"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1832&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1832.909637" aria-label="Play from 00:30:32">And don't want to look you in the eyes because it's offensive.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="5ef6eba6-37b4-4f4a-890e-a746f6b26bfd" data-xs-start="1836.092888" data-xs-end="1837.91487"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1836&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1836.092888" aria-label="Play from 00:30:36">You're attacking them with your eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="84e2f20d-c13c-4f20-9f7e-4a8ac504fae8" data-xs-start="1838.196684" data-xs-end="1840.187984"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1838&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1838.196684" aria-label="Play from 00:30:38">The anger through your eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="603845f3-afeb-477c-9039-543e66467b73" data-xs-start="1840.692731" data-xs-end="1845.10337"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1840&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1840.692731" aria-label="Play from 00:30:40">It's a attack—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b6886bf3-a93a-459c-a407-a02e7d9f8225" data-xs-start="1846.897" data-xs-end="1848.347665"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1846&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1846.897" aria-label="Play from 00:30:46">it's a mental attack</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="20acb8a2-0899-4a8d-a07d-93923ab2516e" data-xs-start="1850.437" data-xs-end="1851.642588"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1850&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1850.437" aria-label="Play from 00:30:50">through your eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6400d3a1-2656-474b-9004-fcb3cfd8621f" data-xs-start="1852.716457" data-xs-end="1854.234493"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1852&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1852.716457" aria-label="Play from 00:30:52">When you look at your eyes</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="318bb34b-e400-48de-a185-511d106bc2aa" data-xs-start="1855.692" data-xs-end="1856.571"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1855&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1855.692" aria-label="Play from 00:30:55">with anger,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2122e23c-af47-4666-9360-99ca86a086b3" data-xs-start="1856.571" data-xs-end="1858.077338"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1856&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1856.571" aria-label="Play from 00:30:56">with angry energy;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="16254130-abd9-4d84-9118-a3554775e527" data-xs-start="1858.238107" data-xs-end="1868.387488"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1858&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1858.238107" aria-label="Play from 00:30:58">you actually are beating up on that person with your anger energy.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a6716acc-4eb6-4274-a454-e4e10eedacde" data-xs-start="1868.913872" data-xs-end="1871.047913"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1868&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1868.913872" aria-label="Play from 00:31:08">And they can feel it through their eyes.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3b2ca4d1-4373-4d24-ae3f-d6d7eeba4cb3" data-xs-start="1878.639588" data-xs-end="1880.795771"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1878&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1878.639588" aria-label="Play from 00:31:18">And think about this:</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4096cd15-383d-4900-acfb-42af47a259c0" data-xs-start="1881.1951934570916" data-xs-end="1883.392011"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1881&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1881.1951934570916" aria-label="Play from 00:31:21">the more Samadhi you have</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="48eeee7d-3485-4ebc-beb1-5aa79abdca1b" data-xs-start="1886.169" data-xs-end="1889.565706"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1886&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1886.169" aria-label="Play from 00:31:26">the scarier you become when you're angry.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="1893.3909674709962" data-xs-start="1893.3909674709962" data-xs-end="1918.051496"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1893&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1893.3909674709962" aria-label="Play from 00:31:33">00:31:33</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d6b4906f-a865-4723-af5d-eb3713195bb3" data-xs-start="1893.3909674709962" data-xs-end="1895.174993"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1893&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1893.3909674709962" aria-label="Play from 00:31:33">So how do you deal with it?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="123c8f3b-d107-4d24-b1b2-91fed948070a" data-xs-start="1895.174993" data-xs-end="1895.7990720823339"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1895&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1895.174993" aria-label="Play from 00:31:35">The question:</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6014e41f-43ce-4789-8797-295b21e5a613" data-xs-start="1895.7990720823339" data-xs-end="1896.831385"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1895&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1895.7990720823339" aria-label="Play from 00:31:35">how do I deal with?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="fce7d710-d2a3-411d-8c46-11fc34fb9859" data-xs-start="1897.130262" data-xs-end="1897.553617"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1897&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1897.130262" aria-label="Play from 00:31:37">You know,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="06bacbee-aa0e-406f-b7f0-80acc36e9828" data-xs-start="1897.990711" data-xs-end="1899.362"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1897&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1897.990711" aria-label="Play from 00:31:37">could be someone lower you:</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="78a7c7ce-c1e8-43e8-823e-575d16aa3a96" data-xs-start="1899.362" data-xs-end="1900.4417059071322"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1899&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1899.362" aria-label="Play from 00:31:39">your student</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8f437910-23f7-472a-8b3a-63ddfab05fa7" data-xs-start="1900.4417059071322" data-xs-end="1902.3968170057587"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1900&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1900.4417059071322" aria-label="Play from 00:31:40">or your maid</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="31197de6-6ecb-443c-8122-022b8a9852f4" data-xs-start="1902.578844590803" data-xs-end="1903.174551"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1902&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1902.578844590803" aria-label="Play from 00:31:42">or...</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9c625f25-d276-4ff8-8339-86901d0a78c3" data-xs-start="1905.173" data-xs-end="1906.385689"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1905&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1905.173" aria-label="Play from 00:31:45">it's unpleasant.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d449b936-2cad-464e-96be-ca5da75616f9" data-xs-start="1906.385689" data-xs-end="1907.802827"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1906&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1906.385689" aria-label="Play from 00:31:46">You don't need to look at it.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="99459d26-d46a-486a-a27d-24b91c74c66d" data-xs-start="1908.509" data-xs-end="1910.07579"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1908&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1908.509" aria-label="Play from 00:31:48">So the way you do it is that...</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="192b1530-5c3e-4c93-89fb-1e482bec5ef5" data-xs-start="1910.479934" data-xs-end="1911.265429"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1910&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1910.479934" aria-label="Play from 00:31:50">First of all,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6bd1f6e4-35f3-4e6a-a9cb-cc4ba6bf68d7" data-xs-start="1913.832" data-xs-end="1915.454"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1913&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1913.832" aria-label="Play from 00:31:53">virtually all of you—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a42c6ff0-c345-4bcb-85a6-348a81c83fe7" data-xs-start="1915.454" data-xs-end="1916.679965"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1915&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1915.454" aria-label="Play from 00:31:55">you practice Chan;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="dfccb9fc-39bd-45a9-bb2c-553c1fe389f1" data-xs-start="1916.903047" data-xs-end="1918.051496"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1916&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1916.903047" aria-label="Play from 00:31:56">you're stronger than them.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="1921.1754703826794" data-xs-start="1921.1754703826794" data-xs-end="1987.38692"><span class="tag-epage-cue" hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" data-source-id="d14f0adc-5b66-4cb1-98a1-b91453444dac" data-xs-start="1952.686407" data-xs-end="1954.251361"></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" data-source-id="b6d9310a-a53f-4193-9108-92c61b6e7961" data-xs-start="1959.024002" data-xs-end="1960.016233"></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" data-source-id="813e361e-d426-4fa7-8cf2-31a9efdcb9e2" data-xs-start="1966.411225" data-xs-end="1969.2768930017978"></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" data-source-id="4c3e3b17-2c88-4a58-aed3-f7ddec13262c" data-xs-start="1978.519049" data-xs-end="1982.6060739164302"></span><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1921&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1921.1754703826794" aria-label="Play from 00:32:01">00:32:01</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="667b2132-8241-487a-a657-9e32f4f9e0ef" data-xs-start="1921.1754703826794" data-xs-end="1925.413893"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1921&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1921.1754703826794" aria-label="Play from 00:32:01">They can be angry all they want at you but they can't do anything to you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2e7063fb-1575-4ea2-a43e-52ee8ecc42bf" data-xs-start="1926.128" data-xs-end="1928.254583"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1926&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1926.128" aria-label="Play from 00:32:06">They can't damage you at all</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="35cf9030-89ff-4962-8992-72929cb55d83" data-xs-start="1929.268" data-xs-end="1931.541829"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1929&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1929.268" aria-label="Play from 00:32:09">with their angry energy.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="eddfa60d-8a11-4abb-bbbc-8269baba98ea" data-xs-start="1931.541829" data-xs-end="1932.918312"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1931&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1931.541829" aria-label="Play from 00:32:11">It will bounce off you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a6eb44c8-3c2f-45f3-86d0-a9f8aa796a34" data-xs-start="1934.593" data-xs-end="1936.224945"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1934&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1934.593" aria-label="Play from 00:32:14">So you don't have to react.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="70e0fe43-58b4-4fa2-b380-0c1cabb6cab5" data-xs-start="1937.037" data-xs-end="1938.115901"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1937&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1937.037" aria-label="Play from 00:32:17">You can embrace it.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4aa150d5-b636-4670-ad11-e09df5bc3946" data-xs-start="1939.407" data-xs-end="1940.727636"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1939&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1939.407" aria-label="Play from 00:32:19">It's an outlet.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ef8da55f-9616-4f72-b7b4-846dfff0eee5" data-xs-start="1940.727636" data-xs-end="1941.324687"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1940&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1940.727636" aria-label="Play from 00:32:20">First of all,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="29f440f9-c949-4d63-8ad1-77e11ca75cae" data-xs-start="1941.566182" data-xs-end="1943.880627877019"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1941&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1941.566182" aria-label="Play from 00:32:21">those of you who have like girlfriends</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1217b8cf-76f7-4c77-8611-57c75fac410f" data-xs-start="1943.880627877019" data-xs-end="1944.575117"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1943&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1943.880627877019" aria-label="Play from 00:32:23">or wives</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="96f8a239-1e36-4c96-b52b-5557fb3bfb1a" data-xs-start="1944.838626" data-xs-end="1945.855938"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1944&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1944.838626" aria-label="Play from 00:32:24">who often lose—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3e2aeba4-27e8-4c42-a7f2-da5f32592f9e" data-xs-start="1945.855938" data-xs-end="1947.882857"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1945&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1945.855938" aria-label="Play from 00:32:25">who sometimes lose their temper.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9c5dd2f3-1583-4c54-b4bf-31e14932ea27" data-xs-start="1948.704" data-xs-end="1949.310752"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1948&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1948.704" aria-label="Play from 00:32:28">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d532a4cb-8f51-46eb-b0b3-5394d0647cbd" data-xs-start="1950.998" data-xs-end="1951.715363"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1950&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1950.998" aria-label="Play from 00:32:30">Anyone?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e168003d-ecba-454c-b089-2058238a8bc7" data-xs-start="1954.251361" data-xs-end="1955.796"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1954&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1954.251361" aria-label="Play from 00:32:34">Some men are laughing.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a07d28be-3248-4392-a974-c7736b1e6f2c" data-xs-start="1955.796" data-xs-end="1956.58"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1955&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1955.796" aria-label="Play from 00:32:35">Heh heh!</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6294e4bc-4c05-473e-97c8-4f4769bd3506" data-xs-start="1956.851026" data-xs-end="1958.169"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1956&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1956.851026" aria-label="Play from 00:32:36">Only men here today.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="90854575-90b0-4297-85c2-360c990a9a42" data-xs-start="1958.169" data-xs-end="1959.024002"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1958&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1958.169" aria-label="Play from 00:32:38">I feel safe.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="01caac6e-c3a1-447d-b2f2-74a27df2d01b" data-xs-start="1960.016233" data-xs-end="1960.754347"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1960&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1960.016233" aria-label="Play from 00:32:40">We can—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0e623848-f94f-4461-81a1-ccc9135b1ecb" data-xs-start="1961.12535" data-xs-end="1962.858072"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1961&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1961.12535" aria-label="Play from 00:32:41">we can speak openly today.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="87b57458-7aa0-48a0-a5bc-f4ddb405dec5" data-xs-start="1962.858072" data-xs-end="1963.331512265176"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1962&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1962.858072" aria-label="Play from 00:32:42">Can we—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c1b8f046-b82d-4973-8ad3-cc4c50d9b43e" data-xs-start="1963.331512265176" data-xs-end="1964.442"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1963&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1963.331512265176" aria-label="Play from 00:32:43">among men only,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4057596b-4e24-4b2a-a07f-2670f45318c1" data-xs-start="1964.442" data-xs-end="1964.727261"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1964&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1964.442" aria-label="Play from 00:32:44">huh,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d5d5358b-743b-4024-86f6-1154f17e32c5" data-xs-start="1964.727261" data-xs-end="1965.958429"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1964&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1964.727261" aria-label="Play from 00:32:44">here at Gold Forest.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8e33125c-24c8-4b5e-86ff-615a96960690" data-xs-start="1969.2768930017978" data-xs-end="1971.235199"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1969&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1969.2768930017978" aria-label="Play from 00:32:49">In contrast look at</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="de6caf17-db44-4d22-8a18-dc9a7c627ead" data-xs-start="1972.24141447712" data-xs-end="1974.186557"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1972&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1972.24141447712" aria-label="Play from 00:32:52">Jewel Conch in Korea.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="f7280e19-bd2c-492b-8fb8-9880772c84f4" data-xs-start="1975.237" data-xs-end="1978.519049"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1975&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1975.237" aria-label="Play from 00:32:55">We have six sleepy woman over there.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3580105d-8df5-4fa3-b2be-aee0c9535855" data-xs-start="1982.6060739164302" data-xs-end="1983.391601"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1982&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1982.6060739164302" aria-label="Play from 00:33:02">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1d602ea2-1020-4441-b87e-3efc18221533" data-xs-start="1983.58851724349" data-xs-end="1984.265546"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1983&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1983.58851724349" aria-label="Play from 00:33:03">All right.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4075296b-421f-471e-8caf-5e629def58d4" data-xs-start="1986.0425187603864" data-xs-end="1987.38692"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1986&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1986.0425187603864" aria-label="Play from 00:33:06">They can't hurt us.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="1990.187" data-xs-start="1990.187" data-xs-end="2010.896476"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1990&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1990.187" aria-label="Play from 00:33:10">00:33:10</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7bc8700d-33d6-4ebf-ae18-90e4c3bb432c" data-xs-start="1990.187" data-xs-end="1993.591515"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1990&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1990.187" aria-label="Play from 00:33:10">I also want you to also be very careful.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6c70a40f-4fde-4332-a6f9-f714f766b6b9" data-xs-start="1993.591515" data-xs-end="1997.151"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1993&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1993.591515" aria-label="Play from 00:33:13">Because when they're angry at you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e0b835a9-f700-4ccf-accd-bd5adf9eb046" data-xs-start="1997.151" data-xs-end="2000.266432"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=1997&autoplay=1" data-book-time="1997.151" aria-label="Play from 00:33:17">and they say something to release their anger</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a6ca461b-9256-4867-a37b-f62aa8680b5f" data-xs-start="2000.266432" data-xs-end="2001.647712"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2000&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2000.266432" aria-label="Play from 00:33:20">which is a good thing for them.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="09e1c6d4-de8c-4226-94fb-ebdd6484f82d" data-xs-start="2001.814948" data-xs-end="2006.125559"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2001&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2001.814948" aria-label="Play from 00:33:21">It's better they release upon you than your children</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a3d67203-5431-48bc-9a4a-745b431b4403" data-xs-start="2006.215176" data-xs-end="2007.915641"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2006&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2006.215176" aria-label="Play from 00:33:26">than other people;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8f6324f2-7733-4eea-a088-9fdec54433f5" data-xs-start="2007.915641" data-xs-end="2009.22"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2007&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2007.915641" aria-label="Play from 00:33:27">than your neighbors,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7e5240cc-1ff2-42b9-a5ec-d1ad8889f7bf" data-xs-start="2009.22" data-xs-end="2010.493785"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2009&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2009.22" aria-label="Play from 00:33:29">than your parents.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="bad0dcc1-7826-4583-8d86-a3e4c5252212" data-xs-start="2010.493785" data-xs-end="2010.896476"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2010&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2010.493785" aria-label="Play from 00:33:30">Right?</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2012.9640165150145" data-xs-start="2012.9640165150145" data-xs-end="2037.467756"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2012&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2012.9640165150145" aria-label="Play from 00:33:32">00:33:32</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1560bca3-109f-4ebd-abc1-dd273cfae70d" data-xs-start="2012.9640165150145" data-xs-end="2014.531309"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2012&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2012.9640165150145" aria-label="Play from 00:33:32">But this case here,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="26b8602d-656b-4ac6-bf6f-1f2287e7dfe7" data-xs-start="2014.531309" data-xs-end="2015.784"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2014&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2014.531309" aria-label="Play from 00:33:34">the professor says,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="eaf3b9e5-4f27-4929-b9ff-4d433394e387" data-xs-start="2015.784" data-xs-end="2015.945235"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2015&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2015.784" aria-label="Play from 00:33:35">you know,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="baafa6ae-8896-4877-bd73-22eed34f2038" data-xs-start="2015.945235" data-xs-end="2016.937406"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2015&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2015.945235" aria-label="Play from 00:33:35">especially my...</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b3f7d3e7-79b8-41db-bbea-3a48f23593dc" data-xs-start="2017.823" data-xs-end="2018.1445664418943"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2017&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2017.823" aria-label="Play from 00:33:37">you know,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b3d9b3fc-cf1a-4e0a-8c42-9c87318b5093" data-xs-start="2018.1445664418943" data-xs-end="2021.273077"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2018&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2018.1445664418943" aria-label="Play from 00:33:38">my parents or...</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ff1ecc32-1d7e-4ddd-bfb5-b648cb95b931" data-xs-start="2023.248503" data-xs-end="2026.898712"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2023&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2023.248503" aria-label="Play from 00:33:43">If they happen to be the people who are close to you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1ff8ff83-5856-4473-8d09-fdb8ff1fe9f9" data-xs-start="2027.76" data-xs-end="2029.407"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2027&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2027.76" aria-label="Play from 00:33:47">It's a good thing for you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="277f1e6f-dfeb-41fc-a8f0-99d9ed9e4c52" data-xs-start="2029.407" data-xs-end="2030.475846"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2029&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2029.407" aria-label="Play from 00:33:49">to be there for them</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="515b2ba3-60a0-46f2-aa89-7fae168ecb72" data-xs-start="2030.475846" data-xs-end="2032.2"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2030&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2030.475846" aria-label="Play from 00:33:50">to release upon you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4e895c9c-fa58-4d44-9498-f8a5ac509f6d" data-xs-start="2032.2" data-xs-end="2033.640718"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2032&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2032.2" aria-label="Play from 00:33:52">because they cannot harm you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1cc3321b-5600-4ae7-a7fb-72ba4158fbf7" data-xs-start="2034.451" data-xs-end="2035.564251"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2034&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2034.451" aria-label="Play from 00:33:54">They cannot hurt you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="010d7aa9-95fb-4da1-a310-b4237173c633" data-xs-start="2036.831" data-xs-end="2037.467756"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2036&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2036.831" aria-label="Play from 00:33:56">Okay.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2037.467756" data-xs-start="2037.467756" data-xs-end="2149.895389"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2037&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2037.467756" aria-label="Play from 00:33:57">00:33:57</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="35c67934-ccfd-487f-ae22-7ae575108549" data-xs-start="2037.467756" data-xs-end="2038.900117"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2037&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2037.467756" aria-label="Play from 00:33:57">This is what I'd like you to do:</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2a67bea7-24fe-4c9f-88d0-4493a092a118" data-xs-start="2039.066716" data-xs-end="2039.747424827383"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2039&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2039.066716" aria-label="Play from 00:33:59">if your dad,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b999a132-9bff-4e4e-bcdc-446538e67779" data-xs-start="2039.747424827383" data-xs-end="2040.4384554743112"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2039&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2039.747424827383" aria-label="Play from 00:33:59">for example,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="fcd74e29-c4b1-476f-9576-0beda9024204" data-xs-start="2040.4384554743112" data-xs-end="2041.70886"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2040&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2040.4384554743112" aria-label="Play from 00:34:00">gets upset at you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c2fee7a1-1b0b-4fed-a3fd-90712cb77306" data-xs-start="2041.70886" data-xs-end="2042.772"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2041&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2041.70886" aria-label="Play from 00:34:01">and yells at you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0409f841-9d2f-4711-8429-43bd93bd28cb" data-xs-start="2042.772" data-xs-end="2045.001669372735"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2042&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2042.772" aria-label="Play from 00:34:02">and direct his anger energy at you,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="f3e49d3e-1a9b-4726-9553-72f39f72019a" data-xs-start="2045.001669372735" data-xs-end="2045.672459"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2045&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2045.001669372735" aria-label="Play from 00:34:05">okay,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8885ff98-34be-4011-a1ce-42b79bbc53f5" data-xs-start="2051.204" data-xs-end="2051.92298"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2051&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2051.204" aria-label="Play from 00:34:11">absorb it.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="f1979961-31f5-4e55-9475-93070e23bf05" data-xs-start="2053.988357826737" data-xs-end="2055.295238"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2053&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2053.988357826737" aria-label="Play from 00:34:13">Don't reject it.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2aa22b84-21e5-4965-8c59-906700626287" data-xs-start="2055.295238" data-xs-end="2056.334915"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2055&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2055.295238" aria-label="Play from 00:34:15">Don't run away.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1f86289d-dba9-4a95-be7c-55163b303bfb" data-xs-start="2056.695768" data-xs-end="2057.47268"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2056&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2056.695768" aria-label="Play from 00:34:16">Absorb it.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="adabc72f-aa6e-4fbe-8c51-4ecfd06bc3fd" data-xs-start="2058.19419" data-xs-end="2059.037829"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2058&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2058.19419" aria-label="Play from 00:34:18">Why?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="abbfb162-968f-4e75-9e19-0608dfacb317" data-xs-start="2061.256" data-xs-end="2065.01707"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2061&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2061.256" aria-label="Play from 00:34:21">You help them release their anger energy</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="05b96956-0ab2-434f-9c11-365ab5d2d158" data-xs-start="2065.01707" data-xs-end="2066.067742"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2065&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2065.01707" aria-label="Play from 00:34:25">so that they</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="93d584a2-6633-4d39-a392-b9ee0fbcf45a" data-xs-start="2069.214" data-xs-end="2072.594596"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2069&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2069.214" aria-label="Play from 00:34:29">can calm down and not hurt others.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3d7d4610-5ec0-4d37-a0e7-e50c4445f677" data-xs-start="2074.3826799349417" data-xs-end="2075.477224"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2074&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2074.3826799349417" aria-label="Play from 00:34:34">You're helping them</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="95e183a8-bb7b-47f6-bd5e-f4d67c6e0ae3" data-xs-start="2075.477224" data-xs-end="2077.798666"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2075&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2075.477224" aria-label="Play from 00:34:35">and you're helping others around you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="50bcf83f-752b-4f46-8d4a-9fb5b3b1061c" data-xs-start="2078.98" data-xs-end="2080.467494"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2078&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2078.98" aria-label="Play from 00:34:38">Especially if you have children,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="09e1ed2e-38f6-4205-a843-a5b9d4ea7c83" data-xs-start="2080.467494" data-xs-end="2081.514428"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2080&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2080.467494" aria-label="Play from 00:34:40">younger children,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1113e6d7-8973-48d1-97b3-844b64abdcae" data-xs-start="2081.514428" data-xs-end="2084.4737"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2081&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2081.514428" aria-label="Play from 00:34:41">you don't want to have an angry adult around them.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="dceb49c5-b65b-494b-b855-472ee36b0377" data-xs-start="2084.784164" data-xs-end="2086.703451"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2084&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2084.784164" aria-label="Play from 00:34:44">You suck up that anger energy.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4d67da0b-074b-4a6a-a6d7-37c5b8077539" data-xs-start="2086.703451" data-xs-end="2089.641112"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2086&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2086.703451" aria-label="Play from 00:34:46">Let them direct that anger energy towards you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="afcae1af-8c8f-4ede-b1e6-4b692d1afb7c" data-xs-start="2089.641112" data-xs-end="2090.35252"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2089&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2089.641112" aria-label="Play from 00:34:49">so that</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="06ff2575-3bcc-4472-bf89-3a8baa2797b9" data-xs-start="2090.587802" data-xs-end="2091.49617"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2090&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2090.587802" aria-label="Play from 00:34:50">they use it up,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d9427755-1947-4cd6-9ffb-5cec2cbf59f9" data-xs-start="2091.49617" data-xs-end="2092.389176"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2091&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2091.49617" aria-label="Play from 00:34:51">they use up—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="86e5b668-b5c8-4d14-b9d5-a67e369ea943" data-xs-start="2092.89" data-xs-end="2093.64878"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2092&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2092.89" aria-label="Play from 00:34:52">faster.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7ff8ea9b-2400-41ef-906f-cc906a610b8c" data-xs-start="2096.005" data-xs-end="2096.601282"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2096&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2096.005" aria-label="Play from 00:34:56">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d273d857-b4b9-4d91-af6d-61e1692cba7b" data-xs-start="2096.911875" data-xs-end="2099.120779"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2096&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2096.911875" aria-label="Play from 00:34:56">And have no worries,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="002c87a2-07c9-4df6-a331-8b15011594d5" data-xs-start="2099.120779" data-xs-end="2101.184"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2099&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2099.120779" aria-label="Play from 00:34:59">you're so much stronger than they are;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3d796e1f-9db6-46d8-8016-4bdc310c90ca" data-xs-start="2101.370673659962" data-xs-end="2104.914986702463"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2101&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2101.370673659962" aria-label="Play from 00:35:01">there's nothing they can do to you that's permanent.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="849ef621-3b5c-4747-8acc-c3702853fc48" data-xs-start="2104.914986702463" data-xs-end="2106.177213169499"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2104&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2104.914986702463" aria-label="Play from 00:35:04">They're just unpleasant.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="04c3f51e-a9ca-4e58-88e9-5fd39625c27a" data-xs-start="2106.277227" data-xs-end="2106.94089"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2106&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2106.277227" aria-label="Play from 00:35:06">That's all.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6de99916-513a-44a5-a073-910c04a4b5df" data-xs-start="2107.687" data-xs-end="2108.782608"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2107&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2107.687" aria-label="Play from 00:35:07">And just like,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="f901deb1-2473-4748-9c21-94346bebe191" data-xs-start="2109.057044" data-xs-end="2109.448698"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2109&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2109.057044" aria-label="Play from 00:35:09">you know,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="bb29ddbe-9630-4875-800a-4f581387ec97" data-xs-start="2109.448698" data-xs-end="2111.1843647322116"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2109&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2109.448698" aria-label="Play from 00:35:09">you have a kid hitting you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="cf04ea36-569d-42d3-9a86-2b343e65147f" data-xs-start="2111.1843647322116" data-xs-end="2111.793764"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2111&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2111.1843647322116" aria-label="Play from 00:35:11">in the arm,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3714b664-448e-42e7-812d-e8ec4cf4aaca" data-xs-start="2111.793764" data-xs-end="2112.454941"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2111&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2111.793764" aria-label="Play from 00:35:11">in the body—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2ad56d21-ada9-41f0-8d3c-753ed55a53cc" data-xs-start="2112.454941" data-xs-end="2113.154655"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2112&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2112.454941" aria-label="Play from 00:35:12">Yes, it hurts.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0b56a878-d079-4d14-a8a3-25bea246133d" data-xs-start="2113.154655" data-xs-end="2114.196241"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2113&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2113.154655" aria-label="Play from 00:35:13">Yes, it's unpleasant</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="af62140c-cf07-4f63-b8ee-9280bc8106c1" data-xs-start="2114.398745" data-xs-end="2118.458343"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2114&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2114.398745" aria-label="Play from 00:35:14">but it's no permanent damage at all.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d2a789bf-c68c-487e-9c7b-25975512b978" data-xs-start="2118.677522" data-xs-end="2119.528500960083"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2118&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2118.677522" aria-label="Play from 00:35:18">Have no fear.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8314a82b-6e61-451c-9736-7b6f58c81513" data-xs-start="2120.487" data-xs-end="2121.314946"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2120&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2120.487" aria-label="Play from 00:35:20">Embrace it</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="371b1b3f-4134-4c89-980b-8a9ad899be38" data-xs-start="2121.761975" data-xs-end="2124.456703"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2121&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2121.761975" aria-label="Play from 00:35:21">as your way of helping them</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0b326c3a-0c05-4918-a034-bf1137006e5b" data-xs-start="2124.456703" data-xs-end="2125.107909"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2124&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2124.456703" aria-label="Play from 00:35:24">right then</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="128c53b0-7d92-47c7-b466-809bd13c823a" data-xs-start="2125.107909" data-xs-end="2126.949186"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2125&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2125.107909" aria-label="Play from 00:35:25">to release the anger energy</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d836d039-bcb7-45a4-8629-7919ef05e1d9" data-xs-start="2126.949186" data-xs-end="2130.654398"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2126&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2126.949186" aria-label="Play from 00:35:26">because the anger energy is not good for their bodies,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="bcb1822e-f40a-4a27-b549-7ab8891e0cbf" data-xs-start="2130.890247" data-xs-end="2131.483246"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2130&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2130.890247" aria-label="Play from 00:35:30">by the way.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9b2c1a37-5a80-4449-92ac-f8753dea163e" data-xs-start="2131.837557" data-xs-end="2133.58"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2131&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2131.837557" aria-label="Play from 00:35:31">They're hurting their own bodies.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="cce07b7b-2cc3-4c9b-ba98-ec47cddfc46b" data-xs-start="2137.098" data-xs-end="2137.650736"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2137&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2137.098" aria-label="Play from 00:35:37">So,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c262ce27-83da-4bec-8efa-d87f660d69e2" data-xs-start="2137.650736" data-xs-end="2139.179913"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2137&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2137.650736" aria-label="Play from 00:35:37">help them release it,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="254f1b9f-be18-4ec2-9d9d-0d0502a62721" data-xs-start="2139.561" data-xs-end="2140.08997"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2139&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2139.561" aria-label="Play from 00:35:39">okay,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="42108580-1824-4773-9c55-19566e3a7d31" data-xs-start="2140.208332" data-xs-end="2143.399215"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2140&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2140.208332" aria-label="Play from 00:35:40">and you deplete their anger energy</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0b20cbfa-e511-4d8b-8fc3-7889e5050aa3" data-xs-start="2143.399215" data-xs-end="2146.282858"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2143&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2143.399215" aria-label="Play from 00:35:43">so that they cannot direct it at your children,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ae301b82-349d-4750-afac-cbb4e2e707fb" data-xs-start="2146.457786" data-xs-end="2149.895389"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2146&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2146.457786" aria-label="Play from 00:35:46">at the rest of the family.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2153.646" data-xs-start="2153.646" data-xs-end="2184.112969"><span class="tag-epage-cue" hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" data-source-id="7ac2d89c-b669-43ab-9f88-efdd7518a0d9" data-xs-start="2164.50247" data-xs-end="2165.251769"></span><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2153&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2153.646" aria-label="Play from 00:35:53">00:35:53</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="fa457298-45db-4895-ab66-f06ac19f7257" data-xs-start="2153.646" data-xs-end="2154.968"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2153&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2153.646" aria-label="Play from 00:35:53">If it's a stranger</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8010d389-69c1-47ab-bb8c-9ce36229ec7f" data-xs-start="2156.762" data-xs-end="2158.216619"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2156&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2156.762" aria-label="Play from 00:35:56">then you have two options.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9e8653f1-1378-444e-999d-f61264c0a894" data-xs-start="2158.971" data-xs-end="2159.627513"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2158&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2158.971" aria-label="Play from 00:35:58">I teach you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7a78cce2-b623-4ef4-8b8c-ae85b06a5f78" data-xs-start="2160.5818759283125" data-xs-end="2162.002662"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2160&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2160.5818759283125" aria-label="Play from 00:36:00">Number 1: run away.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2bdc7978-3105-48c1-974e-e27fc338ac23" data-xs-start="2162.002662" data-xs-end="2162.258720783505"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2162&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2162.002662" aria-label="Play from 00:36:02">You say,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2dbad7ec-a15c-4072-948d-fc065fe367e1" data-xs-start="2162.258720783505" data-xs-end="2163.145"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2162&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2162.258720783505" aria-label="Play from 00:36:02">"Oh, excuse me.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8d971aeb-4880-48e2-8f34-13fc171a93ed" data-xs-start="2163.145" data-xs-end="2164.50247"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2163&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2163.145" aria-label="Play from 00:36:03">I need to go to the bathroom."</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="b0a9a234-4835-4ca2-86af-e3c4626d5c1e" data-xs-start="2165.59741007253" data-xs-end="2166.059991"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2165&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2165.59741007253" aria-label="Play from 00:36:05">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="50672464-9ace-469f-9bbf-448ca4490ac8" data-xs-start="2166.767" data-xs-end="2167.729223"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2166&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2166.767" aria-label="Play from 00:36:06">And just run away.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e85d59a0-27a0-4cac-adf4-9e63bfc43a6d" data-xs-start="2167.729223" data-xs-end="2169.194439"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2167&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2167.729223" aria-label="Play from 00:36:07">You don't care for these people.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7f906bcb-5b44-4c26-9b79-8ff479b857ea" data-xs-start="2176.82" data-xs-end="2177.289144"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2176&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2176.82" aria-label="Play from 00:36:16">Just,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7f7c8d28-05b3-4562-9fd9-e971dd9bd1b1" data-xs-start="2177.289144" data-xs-end="2179.174337"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2177&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2177.289144" aria-label="Play from 00:36:17">"Excuse me. I'll be right back.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="68fa33d8-873b-4208-9c89-81c35b42b01a" data-xs-start="2179.3833866119835" data-xs-end="2182.784"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2179&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2179.3833866119835" aria-label="Play from 00:36:19">And where's your bathroom?"</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3a830047-5bc1-4818-8806-f1e5cfc880d1" data-xs-start="2182.784" data-xs-end="2184.112969"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2182&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2182.784" aria-label="Play from 00:36:22">Go to the bathroom.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2195.502" data-xs-start="2195.502" data-xs-end="2283.693645"><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2195&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2195.502" aria-label="Play from 00:36:35">00:36:35</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="750fa148-b831-436d-9e16-a8d2aca28383" data-xs-start="2195.502" data-xs-end="2199.85269"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2195&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2195.502" aria-label="Play from 00:36:35">Or you want to teach them a lesson,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="6d707c0d-573e-4dfa-ae79-a7eabf2b9d98" data-xs-start="2202.538" data-xs-end="2209.575155"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2202&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2202.538" aria-label="Play from 00:36:42">let me teach you one thing because this will motivate you to build your Samadhi.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a0844e41-52c1-4018-becd-9949605c7de1" data-xs-start="2210.424" data-xs-end="2210.901396"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2210&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2210.424" aria-label="Play from 00:36:50">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="28e0563b-c705-4a76-93ff-79acd759a0b8" data-xs-start="2210.901396" data-xs-end="2215.256737"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2210&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2210.901396" aria-label="Play from 00:36:50">You look at them in the eyes because they're looking at you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="bd493d78-9c26-4dcf-a336-472ffc9ab832" data-xs-start="2215.256737" data-xs-end="2216.673534"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2215&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2215.256737" aria-label="Play from 00:36:55">It's very unpleasant right?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7eb88bf3-fd66-4a52-add9-ddc30c96ab64" data-xs-start="2217.871" data-xs-end="2218.997954667238"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2217&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2217.871" aria-label="Play from 00:36:57">Mentally,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c8e3c185-22e2-4887-9c91-ef81ce4addf1" data-xs-start="2219.66201826453" data-xs-end="2220.604792"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2219&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2219.66201826453" aria-label="Play from 00:36:59">push back.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1532b3c6-e05d-4cca-b11c-ad5b09b3b169" data-xs-start="2222.364" data-xs-end="2225.309478"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2222&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2222.364" aria-label="Play from 00:37:02">This is what a nun did to me when I first started.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0539ff3c-b8d0-4b4a-ba31-acbb25c48050" data-xs-start="2226.317" data-xs-end="2227.208105"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2226&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2226.317" aria-label="Play from 00:37:06">You push it back—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="92a60682-cc03-4980-be70-919b5ac0a96d" data-xs-start="2228.245" data-xs-end="2229.02457"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2228&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2228.245" aria-label="Play from 00:37:08">slowy.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="baf00b5e-9b12-4a05-8317-05a777120c94" data-xs-start="2230.26" data-xs-end="2232.603"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2230&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2230.26" aria-label="Play from 00:37:10">So you can see yourself a difference</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="0058c28b-8641-4a1c-b1d8-9cbcf9412e45" data-xs-start="2232.818336" data-xs-end="2235.213"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2232&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2232.818336" aria-label="Play from 00:37:12">that you're not as bothered.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2bd2b1dd-b78e-4c56-854a-248aea912729" data-xs-start="2236.757" data-xs-end="2240.055665"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2236&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2236.757" aria-label="Play from 00:37:16">It bothers you because you allow them to invade you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="006438bd-8588-4d6c-9f9b-892a323aa2ef" data-xs-start="2240.055665" data-xs-end="2241.267044"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2240&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2240.055665" aria-label="Play from 00:37:20">Now you push back.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="085e47b2-83b7-4d41-83ef-36086ae7c3fc" data-xs-start="2243.877" data-xs-end="2245.4739834057978"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2243&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2243.877" aria-label="Play from 00:37:23">I want you to stop in the middle.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="26b45d3d-9451-4e08-8d13-336acab8a698" data-xs-start="2245.4739834057978" data-xs-end="2246.978375"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2245&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2245.4739834057978" aria-label="Play from 00:37:25">Do not go further than that</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2a1bdf95-8d7b-4f2c-938d-dc1048ccc3f9" data-xs-start="2247.799" data-xs-end="2249.547961"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2247&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2247.799" aria-label="Play from 00:37:27">because when you go past—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="3d7d8c00-a79d-440e-814b-90819edf4cd5" data-xs-start="2249.547961" data-xs-end="2250.243108"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2249&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2249.547961" aria-label="Play from 00:37:29">close—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="23005632-b0e4-4355-be2a-91ebfaf48920" data-xs-start="2250.513792" data-xs-end="2252.214063"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2250&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2250.513792" aria-label="Play from 00:37:30">closer to their bodies;</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7c1e7659-1c2d-4f0c-b833-0abd381bea68" data-xs-start="2252.476843" data-xs-end="2254.144179"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2252&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2252.476843" aria-label="Play from 00:37:32">especially to their eyes—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="779f2691-c129-4e8f-91dd-c222af5b7872" data-xs-start="2254.144179" data-xs-end="2255.774509"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2254&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2254.144179" aria-label="Play from 00:37:34">it becomes offensive.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="1ab3e0ff-1724-4961-9e17-d6d717a2ea57" data-xs-start="2257.509835338661" data-xs-end="2259.269723"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2257&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2257.509835338661" aria-label="Play from 00:37:37">All you do is push it back.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7acebeb7-85a8-40e8-82ff-d01070da0222" data-xs-start="2261.3103353527063" data-xs-end="2262.654236"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2261&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2261.3103353527063" aria-label="Play from 00:37:41">There's a wall right there.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="e3dffa19-9812-434b-a787-126c19964660" data-xs-start="2264.605" data-xs-end="2266.416895"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2264&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2264.605" aria-label="Play from 00:37:44">Who's in charge?</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="8843fdd5-ed04-4d3c-bc72-2d9687cd7c04" data-xs-start="2267.0828942377316" data-xs-end="2268.154567"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2267&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2267.0828942377316" aria-label="Play from 00:37:47">I am in charge.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7d879e8a-8a76-4522-b3d6-442bfd564179" data-xs-start="2268.154567" data-xs-end="2268.819497"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2268&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2268.154567" aria-label="Play from 00:37:48">Not you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="2a323c8c-793b-45a4-a2bb-ae286e17d336" data-xs-start="2270.596869349392" data-xs-end="2272.0903"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2270&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2270.596869349392" aria-label="Play from 00:37:50">Because I'm stronger</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="ddca0985-bfc8-4934-8c7a-854da6a63e77" data-xs-start="2272.0903" data-xs-end="2273.210515"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2272&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2272.0903" aria-label="Play from 00:37:52">I will not hurt you</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="7050fb62-ca6d-413f-8600-d1d7ab9f35f4" data-xs-start="2273.3270763139412" data-xs-end="2274.103942"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2273&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2273.3270763139412" aria-label="Play from 00:37:53">but</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="03935dfd-bbac-47a6-b28d-d7067cd104bc" data-xs-start="2275.320990813478" data-xs-end="2276.778218"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2275&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2275.320990813478" aria-label="Play from 00:37:55">I'm in charge.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="fcad963f-c897-4b56-a621-feca5faabb4a" data-xs-start="2276.778218" data-xs-end="2279.091018"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2276&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2276.778218" aria-label="Play from 00:37:56">This is where it stops.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="a0f7db6d-6d6e-4755-a3af-676ac1155421" data-xs-start="2280.895" data-xs-end="2283.693645"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2280&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2280.895" aria-label="Play from 00:38:00">That is only if you want to impress them.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2289.311" data-xs-start="2289.311" data-xs-end="2296.83"><span class="tag-epage-cue" hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" data-source-id="b3a82762-c008-4650-9bcb-2ecb98b44bc2" data-xs-start="2291.097165" data-xs-end="2296.83"></span><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2289&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2289.311" aria-label="Play from 00:38:09">00:38:09</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="eeb7ab48-c632-4751-b98c-51304b8fbdcb" data-xs-start="2289.311" data-xs-end="2290.610989"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2289&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2289.311" aria-label="Play from 00:38:09">What happend to applause?</a></span></div></div></div></div>
<div class="tag-book-section tag-epage-section tag-book-continuation" data-epage-description-start="2296.83" data-xs-start="2296.83" data-xs-end="2315.136737"><span class="tag-epage-cue" hidden aria-hidden="true" style="display:none!important" data-source-id="e01bd884-e368-4444-b4d3-5a1ccdfafbdd" data-xs-start="2309.997986" data-xs-end="2310.239693"></span><div class="tag-book-dialogue"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-turn"><div class="tag-book-dialogue-name"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-book-turn-time" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2296&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2296.83" aria-label="Play from 00:38:16">00:38:16</a></div><div class="tag-book-dialogue-text"><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="14538cd2-0368-4474-b04e-77096578fe39" data-xs-start="2296.83" data-xs-end="2297.886976"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2296&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2296.83" aria-label="Play from 00:38:16">We're not weak.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="9c5f7669-b10d-4711-80f4-3d6862b0eb22" data-xs-start="2298.704" data-xs-end="2301.377415"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2298&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2298.704" aria-label="Play from 00:38:18">Sometimes we need to assert ourselves.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="53a3e525-3ed0-44f6-9cf4-11de97547eb6" data-xs-start="2303.688" data-xs-end="2304.198462"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2303&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2303.688" aria-label="Play from 00:38:23">Okay.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="bc6869bc-e1a9-4198-8426-f64095151434" data-xs-start="2304.607698" data-xs-end="2306.501611"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2304&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2304.607698" aria-label="Play from 00:38:24">I assert myself differently.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="4d3b0888-9d13-4c66-bddb-3c2ad0108e2f" data-xs-start="2306.501611" data-xs-end="2308.146622"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2306&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2306.501611" aria-label="Play from 00:38:26">I do not even have to go where I—</a></span><span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="d0a07a8c-4263-4a4c-b3c3-fe582e671641" data-xs-start="2308.146622" data-xs-end="2309.488579"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2308&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2308.146622" aria-label="Play from 00:38:28">through what I teach you.</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="c2d500ab-317a-417b-b7a5-8449cebdee0c" data-xs-start="2310.239693" data-xs-end="2311.725526"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2310&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2310.239693" aria-label="Play from 00:38:30">This is what it takes,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="f44914c2-32e7-4d89-b8a5-91dcda9e18a9" data-xs-start="2312.361" data-xs-end="2312.895454"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2312&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2312.361" aria-label="Play from 00:38:32">okay,</a></span> <span class="tag-epage-cue" data-source-id="cf011e62-3fe0-4294-b1a7-4458042fe6dc" data-xs-start="2313.113523" data-xs-end="2315.136737"><a class="tag-book-jump tag-epage-cue-link" target="transcriberag-studio-book-video" href="https://www.youtube.com/embed/r8jM6QpMNy4?enablejsapi=1&start=2313&autoplay=1" data-book-time="2313.113523" aria-label="Play from 00:38:33">if you get more advanced.</a></span></div></div></div></div>
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