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You allow others being wrong to afflict you. You allow others being inferior to afflict you. You allow yourself to be afflicted. It's not about right or wrong, or about fairness or unfairness. It is about this: does that afflict you? If it afflicts you—whether someone is wrong or someone is right, and you're afflicted by that—you are an idiot. Because when you're afflicted, your head is clouded, and you make wrong decisions. You're hurting yourself, and you're hurting a lot of people, including your own family.
You say, "It's so wrong. I'm so angry about this. This is so unfair." But you can't see the interplay of cause and effect. So, what do we do? Don't get afflicted. Getting afflicted only makes you more confused.
Just control your afflictions. That's the only thing that you can do. Control your afflictions. That's why when I see you afflicted, I see a stupid person. Just endure it, because by enduring it, you learn not to get afflicted. And that's wisdom.