#platform/youtube #channel/Master-YongHua #playlist/dharma-glimpses  Thus melted and refined. Suddenly one enters the inconceivable. This is very very important. What he says here is very very important. When you get hurt by slanders, what do you do? I'm known of a lot of monks and nuns who got slandered, got into big trouble. What did they do? They ran away. The key word here is dissolve. R is absorb. Meaning what? When you get slandered, don't run away because the slander followed you, the hurt followed you. Instead, what do you do? If you have wisdom, you you dissolve the slander and you absorb it into your body and suddenly you enter the inconceivable. Just stop whining, stop crying. How do you shout? How do you smelt it? How do you dissolve it? You dissolve it. Find a way to dissolve it. So many ways to dissolve it. You figure out a way yourself to dissolve it. And then is absorb it. Okay? And this is key. This is Chinese is so beautiful. This is the essence of how you handle adversity. That's how you enter the inconceivable. Inconceivable here refers to enlightenment. Meaning that when you face with difficulty, slander here is represents something that's so unpleasant, you need to shroom because it's so difficult for you to absorb. Is that clear? This is the key. When you practice, you need to learn to things are difficult for you to accept. Meaning what? You come here. You woman women come here and you go home after eating lunch soon. We're going to go to lunch soon. Okay, girls. And you go home and husband says, "Where were you? How could you abandon me?" He say, "I didn't abandon you. How could you be you slandering me?" So what do you do? Don't complain. You okay? You follow along. You You dissolve it and absorb it. Is that clear? If you do that, you have a chance to become enlightened. Don't run away. Look at him. So, oh honey, I miss you too. That's see that I miss you too. is you hug him. That's one way. Same thing with you men as well. Where were you? We see all of a woman. I said, "I miss you too, babe." "Oh, you look so adorable this morning." Got that guys. This is Chan. You think Chan is here? No. Chance is an attitude. When you have difficulty, things are difficult for you to handle, you shell room. You and then you shell room. This is a beautiful lesson, folks. Superior for superior people. You do this, I guarantee you, you will get to the superior roots class. This is what they do. Got that? What you're learning today is very important. Three things. Okay? Slander represents something is very difficult for you to take. Therefore, you need to learn to Okay, got that is don't fight it. Don't say my husband you what what are you talking about? I can't I—I—I went to I went to the temple. It's a good place. Okay. No, you don't fight. You go of your court law. Oh, okay. Okay. I'm sorry you I made you upset. That Okay. And that is absolve it. Okay. Dissolve what? Affliction. That's right. It's unpleasant. That's why you dissolve the unpleasant in your heart. Is that clear? The sh is you dissolve what's unpleasant because you don't dissolve it. You give it back to them. Like your girlfriend, she's unpleasant. Okay? You fight her, you push it back to her. That's all you do. But you take it, you swallow it. That's okay. Is another way is to to swallow it. Got that? Okay. So, please remember three things. I'm I—I want I insist you learn this Chinese thing because it's incredibly wise, folks. Okay. Please bear with me. That's how you can improve the quality of your life. Is don't fight. Don't be like a porcupine. You're like a porcupine. You know, not a porcupine. Okay. That's number two is is dissolve it. Okay, dissolve the negativity in your mind. And three run is absorb it. Okay, no more negative. And that you still have negative negativity. That means you have not completely dissolved it. Continue. That's all. It's just like it's just like you you washing you're washing something that's dirty has been dirty for a long time. It takes many layers. Okay. You keep on washing and washing until one day it becomes clean. That's all. Don't be so cheap to think oh I—I follow Master instruction therefore I've been doing for one month and therefore I must be over it and you're over it. It wouldn't bother you anymore. Ato. To a meto To a