#platform/youtube #channel/bodhi-light ![why your help isn't working](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qKS8LJMz768) The mistakes [music] that people try to do when others come to you for help is that you try too hard to help. You don't have to help. You're underestimating people's abilities [music] to take care of themselves. Theoretically, we're all endowed with our Buddha nature. There's nothing we can fix. [music] We have a lot of inherent wisdom built up in us that it's waiting for a chance to manifest itself.