#platform/youtube #channel/bodhi-light  If you figured out your ego, there's nothing you cannot do. So, what do you do that? Nothing. Make money? I can do that. Be successful? I can do that. Why you do nothing? Because you wait until something must be done. That's called conserving energy. Normally, don't you feel you must do something? You feel compelled to do something because you afraid to waste time, you afraid of this, you afraid of that. So, you chasing your tail all day. Whereas, when you have wisdom, you only do things that are necessary. You only fix problems that need to be fixed. Because the world has so many problems, you cannot fix them all. Does it mean they have no more emotions? If your wife matters to you, then what's a good way to communicate with your wife besides buying her washer and dryer or a new car? The emotions need to be fulfilled. So, when you need to be emotional, remember they do nothing until there's a need to be done. Therefore, if you need to connect with your wives, then you need to connect at the emotional level. That's when they become emotional, not before. We are emotional constantly. I like you. I love you. Oh, I'm so so excited to see you. And you get so excited constantly. You cannot help yourself. Whereas, these people, they as cool as cucumbers. Until they say, "Oh, I love you." And all the intensity comes out. That's emotions for you. Meaning, they're more emotional than us. Cuz when they express their emotions, it's more intense than ours. As all the wives ask for, "Love me, and mean it."