#platform/youtube #channel/bodhi-light  When people come to you and say, "I'm in big trouble. Help, help, help." Most of you will say, "Oh, let me help. How about this? How about that?" Whereas, the first thing that you need to do is to listen. Let them release the built-up frustration and pressure and anguish. They're out of balance, so venting restores balance. Most of them can take care of themselves. They are more intimately familiar with their own problems than we are.