#platform/youtube #channel/bodhi-light  because you want him to have a life independent of you that's true love I feel don't think so much about I'm gonna lose him you're gonna lose him whether you like it or not so enjoy for now I have this one employee she's been with me since the very beginning she's always goes love and be young to help me and I know at some point in a very near future she's going to leave or her own plans how could I be detached from someone that is and so helpful and so meaningful to me you have a son right what do you think that happened to him when he's 18 years old he's going to have his own life what's it what are you gonna do then hopefully you're too old to care that's not the answer you see you really love him and you want him to have his own life and not depend on you at all that's why we feed them we close we bring him to soccer bring him to school pay for tutors okay and so forth because you want him to not depend on us that's true love do you love this woman it sounds like it yes very much if you really care for her which seems to be the case if I were you I would prepare her to leave so that she can be on her own to me it's true love in the sense that like you love your son you want your son to have his own life that he doesn't need to depend on you so that his future wife or girlfriend would not have to compete against you when I was younger my mom managed to make me feel like she's the most important woman in my life and she is to this day she still is so when I got married I look my ex wife and I said you never can replace my mother you're prettier than her you're sexier than her but you're not the same as my mother you don't want to do that to your own son do you don't you want your son to when he find a woman or a man that he's gone love him with all his heart love her with all his heart because you want him to have a life independent of you that's true love I feel so until he decides to leave you enjoy it don't think so much about I'm gonna lose him you're gonna lose him whether you like it or not so enjoy for now and when he leaves you for another woman you better believe it let it be that he always has the special place in his heart where you are the image will always be there that's very important to him trust me to know that there's someone special in his life who cares and asks nothing of him that's always there that he can always depend on and a special bond there how many people can you have that kind of relationship with your husband could leave you when you get older and ugly it happens men do that your love is possessive and not healthy you're only tormenting yourself