#channel/bodhi-light-teachings  I talked to one of my disciples recently, and she says, "You know, it's uh my partner's fault, you know?" She keeps on talk telling me uh what her partner does wrong. So, it's always someone else's fault. And she doesn't realize that she's the one who's making herself endure all the suffering. And that's what happened to you, people who are too smart. You only believe in your own mind, and uh you can't even see that you are tormenting yourself. You're creating all this suffering yourself. That ego of yours is the real culprit.