#channel/bodhi-light-teachings  Real life is cultivation. Cultivation is not this perfect thing where you always perfect and you have no affliction whatsoever. It's perfectly okay to blow your top and then learn to apologize. It's okay to make mistakes because we all make mistakes. It's okay to lose your temper. I want you to face your own anger and say, "I'm ashamed of myself because I'm angry and I want to try my hardest to overcome this anger." That's honesty. That's being straightforward.