#channel/bodhi-light-teachings  If you love her, you need to put up with her. If you in love with her, then learn to bear the tantrum. You learn how to look at how cute she is when she misbehaves. You find something cute about it, something good about it. For me, it's always a trade-off. What's a plus, what's a minus? The reason I—I stick with the your girlfriend is because the pluses outweigh the minuses. But that's part of life. You need to keep things in balance. Let me tell you one thing that is will not change is that you cannot keep on running away from the people you care. You need to stuff it out.