#channel/bodhi-light-teachings  If you're in a relationship, I'm warning you. You grow in this direction, she grows in this direction. How long do you think it's going to last? If you want it to last, you have to go closer to her because she's not going your way. You see? That's why modern-day people get divorced because of this divergence of interest. When they get older, they're no longer willing to compromise. They have more choices.