#platform/youtube #channel/Master-YongHua #playlist/dharma-seeds  **Hatred is blaming others for your misery.** And the way we interpret it ourselves is that... "They're so wrong. I hate them. I hate you because you're wrong!" But actually, you're using them as an excuse for you to be unhappy because, deep down, you're unhappy already. **And you blow up at someone to let it out—let out your anger, vent your anger—and then use it as an excuse only... [use] that person as a punching bag. But actually, you are miserable.** It's not their fault. You're miserable already.